The questions you HAVE TO ask on the first date!
In the previous article, we covered the questions that you should never ask on your first date. For reading that article click on here. In this article, we are going to give you a list of questions that you should ask in order to get the most information from them in the most indirect, inoffensive way possible.
It is pretty difficult to know what actually works and what won’t since people are different and questions might sound offensive to someone while it might sound ridiculous to another one. In order to prevent that from happening we should be so careful with whatever questions we ask and our choice of words. Today we will provide you with some examples.
1. How was your day?
This question will show that you actually are interested in the person and you will know if they are optimistic or pessimistic! If right when this question leaves your lips they start complaining, you know where you are standing and how positive this person is.
2. What do you like to do in your free-time?
Asking this question will help you to find out if you are dealing with a workaholic or not! You will know how much they care about everything and what their hobbies are. By knowing their hobbies you will get to know them more and you might also share some common ground.
3. What are you passionate about?
This question will show how strongly they care about everything in their lives. Nothing feels better than talking about your passion and your dream! In this way, you can also find out what their goals are in life and if you can move along with them toward their path.
4. Do you like your job?
Being satisfied with what you are doing in your life or having a reason for doing what you may not be so pleased with means you are on the right path and you know where you are standing in your own life. It is always easier to be with someone who knows who they are and what they want to do.
5. Are you a morning person?
Nowadays, there are so many night owls that finding a morning person is like a needle in a haystack! If you are the type of person who spends their time doing whatever they plan on at night you need to know if your partner is going to be ok with that in case they’re unlike you.
6. Tell me about your family
If the person you are on the first date with is mentioning their family with sparkles in their eyes that mean that they're wife or husband material! See! That’s how you pose the question instead of asking it directly! This way you will know how much they care about their family and their origin.
7. The best vacation you have ever had
Let them come up with some ideas or memories to impress you! Give them the chance to shine! You could see how adventurous the person is by listening to their story and analyzing their holiday package! You are trying to find something in common with the person with each question you ask and that is exactly where you are heading towards, here!
8. Isn’t it too noisy here for you?
Never be afraid of changing the location of your date in case you find it agitating! If you enter a noisy club, you cannot find it easy to talk to the person and to get to know them. Ask them how they feel about the place you both are in. If they want to move out of the place, you can even ask for their recommendation! Smart move!
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