Questions you should never ask your partner...
Granting all the needs of the partner sounds like a good idea, but in reality, it could ruin your relationship. Davida Rappaport, Spiritual counsellor, and couple therapist believes that the negative energy and mood of one party in a relationship can strongly impact the other party inevitably.
No matter how emotionally open you are in your relationship with your partner, there are things that can cause stress, psychological discomfort, embarrassment, or even the desire to demolish the relationship.There are things that you should not talk about with your partner and in this article, we are going to mention 8 of them.
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1. Is something bothering you?
The expert explains that the immediate response to the mood of the partner is important, but you cannot continually ask the other half if everything is okay. Especially if you are dealing with a more introverted person who talks about problems only when they feel ready for it.
2. Who was your ex?
Talking about the former, according to experts leads to an unnecessary comparison to the old love. He has chosen you, you are the current partner, so why does it matter? Why do you care who the person was? This will do nothing but make you feel uneasy! Leave the past in the past and focus on NOW.
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3. Will you ever cheat on me?
Psychologists believe that such a question should fall only when we have serious indications (preferably supported by evidence) indicating the betrayal of a partner. Posing this question every time we fall into paranoia, can make the partner (if there is nothing on my conscience) feel hurt hearing such accusations. This can have a negative impact on the relationship.
4. Are we together?
This one is probably the most surprising one. We can read how important it is to talk retaining the status of the relationship after the first few months of dating, to determine whether we meet only with each other, etc. Cited above psychologist says that it is better to leave things and this conversation takes place in a spontaneous way when it comes to the right time.
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5. Topic prohibition
There are some topics that are better to stay prohibited. The request for access password to an account on social networking sites/e-mail. Asking any kinds of information about the number of partners they have had. Also for the couples that attend individual therapy sessions, you should never ask your partner to tell you whatever their session was about!
6. What did you do today?
That is only a sample! What did you do today? What did you have for lunch? What are you doing now? These are all some futile questions that don't worth your time! If there is nothing else to talk about, then stop! You shouldn’t talk to each other 24/7! Questioning every minute of the day may indicate a lack of trust in your partner. It is also not a sign of a healthy relationship.
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7. Who is your favourite celebrity?
This might sound ridiculous. Since it is a seemingly innocent question, but rather a response to it, may have the same negative effect as the question regarding their ex. You will find yourself comparing the way you look to the previous or "dream" love and it does not lead to anything good.
8. How do I look?
Do not ask such a question, if you're not prepared for the answer - expert advice. Sometimes the answer is exactly what you want to hear but the other times, they take things literally and give you the answer you don’t want to hear which make bring many vital things to the surface and create a crisis.