Published 2017-06-20
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9 Tricks to be charming!

People always want to win the heart of everyone. Getting the validation and acceptance of other people will make us feel better about ourselves. Whether we admit that or not, we want other people to be on the same page with us. Not only that, when you see someone for the first time, you always want to strike them as someone who is super cool and charming but not everyone was born with it.
In this article, we are going to give you some suggestions that can make your more charming.

1. Names

This is not cool. You cannot forget someone’s name just when they have already introduced themselves to you a minute ago! It is disrespectful. But more important than that, a great number of people hear but don’t listen to what other people are saying. You need to pay attention to whatever everyone says and even if necessary, comment on that. If they are narrating a story with the same cousin being the main role, just mention the name of the cousin and see how they will react.

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2. Questions?

Don’t be afraid to ask questions and start the small talk, but how? Why don’t you search online about the dos and don’ts of the questions you can ask in order to start a small talk? This will be immensely helpful especially in times when there is the awkward silence that we all are familiar with happens. Learn how to ask them and how to carry the conversation on. Try to find a common ground so that the conversations wouldn’t depend on you.

2. Questions?

3. Touch

We have already covered a whole article on how important your touch can be. To read that, click here. In an experiment, researchers tried to express 12 emotions by touching the one who was being examined without uttering a single word and the result was 50-83% accurately communicated. In order to seem more charming, you need to make skinship but it needs to be smart! A handshake, a pat on the shoulder, or whatever that seems more suitable according to the situation you are in and how close you are to that person.

Do you think your body language matters?

3. Touch

4. Body language

Your body language and your facial expression can make the person stay and listen to you or decide to leave because he feels extremely bored. Charming people express their feelings and emotions more precisely than other people. You can convey the emotion that you want easier when you use body language and facial expressions accurately. Just give it a try and you will be shocked by the result.

4. Body language

5. Silly?

Charming people are not afraid of being humiliated for what they are doing in front of many people, as the matter of fact, they enjoy it. They make all that into a fun experience to write home about. Not only do they manage to create the most awkward situation you have ever seen, but they also make you laugh with them. The more comfortable people feel when they are around you, the easier it will be to attract them.

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6. Understand

You need to study every single movement and word of the person you want to attract. Observe them for, let’s say ten minutes, and then start talking to them. In the time you have them being observed, pay attention to whatever you see or hear to find something in common and when you want to start the conversation, start with that same interest you both share. It is not that difficult, people reveal so much about themselves if you are only meticulous enough to see.

6. Understand

7. Nice to meet you

Charming people are always genuinely thrilled to be meeting you. It is not very easy to come out of your comfort zone and start communicating with so many people around you. But if there is something that worth mentioning here, is that if you are this way, so social, you will be able to attract so many people! Isn't being charming what you want? Then this way you can be the most charming person on planet earth.

Don't be afraid to make eye contact!

8. Eye contact

Making eye contact is of vital importance. This is one of the universal ways of saying you are interested and if you know how to do the seductive eyes then you are the winner! When you keep your eye contact with people, you are projecting your feelings onto them. They will smile when you smile, nod when you do, laugh when you laugh and a lot more. The reason to all that is that you were able to engage them in whatever conversation you are having.

8. Eye contact

9. Not afraid to lose

Charming people are not scared of trying new things and failing. If they do not know how to do things, they will just ask you to teach them how to do it right. They don’t want to win everything, quite the opposite, they want to give their best without expecting anything in return. They are not ashamed of talking about their failures in life.

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