9 Psychological tricks that can get you what you want
Fortunately for us, our mind is not only based on logic so you can trick it into getting what you want! Ok! That might sound a little bit creepy but it is the truth. Jim Butcher, an author, says: “The human mind is not a terribly logical or consistent place.” In case, you did not believe us! There are some tips that can help you have a better and easier life and they are proven by psychologist so it is guaranteed! Here is the list.
1. Have you ever had the experience of wanting to be friends with someone who obviously is not up for it?! Was trying harder? What did you do? Well, don’t do much! According to a psychologist to win over someone, all you need to do is to ask them for a tiny favor since most people do not mind doing small things to help others. This will make them have the mindset of collaboration and find you as a member of their team.
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2. This one is quite smart for the ladies out there. Have you ever been walking for a while with someone with so many bags in your hand thinking ‘why the hell he does not help?’! We might just have the solution to your problem. Hand whatever you want them to carry to them while you are talking to them! Smart move, isn’t it?! People pay a lot more attention to what you are talking about than what you are doing and since there is no multitasking here, they will hold your bag for you.
3. Has it ever happened to you that you got stuck in a crowd and didn’t get to where you wanted to go because they wouldn’t let you move! What you are doing wrong is everything. In order to get your path opened right where you want to go you need to keep your eyes on the destination. People will automatically get out of your way and make a path for you just like a queen!
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4. Have you ever been in a situation where you are so curious to know the person you are interested in but you're not sure if that person is interested in you as well?! There is a way to find that out! You know that yawn is contagious right? So, in order to get to know if the person is staring at you or not, all you need to do is yawn! Right?! If they yawn, which is likely to happen, then you can find out that they had been staring at you all this time! You also can just turn your head and check if they are looking or not which is not a good idea!
5. Make people think that they had a say! This might be a little bit b**chy but you can make your guy think like he is the dominant one while in fact, you were the mastermind behind the trick they luckily will never understand! What you need to do is to give them choices in the area that you desire. When you give them two option in an area that you want, it makes them think that they’ve got the power while no matter what their choice is, they will work in your favor!
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6. Giving advice to other people has not ever been something that you can look forward to because of the enormous responsibility that it is followed with! No matter what, if something goes wrong, you probably are the one who persuaded them to make this horrible choice and end up where they are right now! However, to make things more impactable, all you need to do is to add ‘I learned this from my grandma/grandpa/mom/dad’, anyone who is older than you will do because people give more weight to the advice they receive from old people.
7. Have you ever shook hands with someone in winter and they have apologized for how cold their hand is!? Hearing it for the first time might startle you but what you do not know is that this stems from a psychological proved fact! It is proven that shaking hands with people who have warm hands put people at ease and they feel comfortable and on the contrary, cold hands make you feel uncomfortable and put your guards on!
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8. And we finally got to our favorite part of the list! If you want someone to agree with whatever you are saying, all you need to do is nod your head! Isn’t that just great! Now, there is no way for you to get a NO for an answer! Nodding is known as the signs of confidence and trustworthiness so by nodding while you are explaining the matter to someone, they will be predisposed to agree with whatever you are saying and of course shaking your head will demolish all the effort!
9. And to the most common crisis in everyone’s life! The stuck song! Do not worry about it. Here is the solution! All you need to do is to go along with the song till the very end of it and that is it! It is more likely for your brain to get an unfinished song on repeat than a finished one!
Now, with all these tricks, your life is a living heaven!
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