7 Signs that your man is hiding the truth about what he really wants
We have heard and experienced many times that it is not a good idea to reveal everything and say it all when you are in a relationship because that way misunderstandings can be easily dodged and avoided by hiding some trivial things or better say, by not saying it all. Of course this is only accurate when things are not that important, not about the feeling you have for the other person or about what you want in the relationship. Despite that, so many people go ahead and lie about these very important parts of the partnership and build up a relationship on lies which will lead to nowhere but a breakup!
Lying about things like marriage, having kids and a lot more things will give your significant other so much hope that there is a future to your relationship and if there is not and you are only saying all these to make her feel good, at the end, she will detest you. Honesty in these matters is the best policy and we are here to give you the giveaway signs that your man is hiding the truth about what he really wants. Keep reading until the last page to be more alert in your relationship before it goes a different way.
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1. Weasel words
“Maybe”, “Later”, “Could be”, … This is where men are quite the experts. They know exactly which word to use in order to get your attention and also not to admit anything or commit to anything that they might regret in the future. Since they are not really sure about what they might want in the future or they do not want to admit right now that they are not looking for a relationship, they tactfully play with words. Sometimes you are so fine that they do not want to lose the opportunity of being with you so they lie!
2. Change of mine
At the beginning, he talks about how he wants whatever you want and is always there alongside you but as things start moving forward, he starts making some negative points about your decision that does not seem like him! Imagine that you have agreed that you would get married and whenever he sees a married couple he points out how boring their life is and how exhilarating and adventurous yours is! And after marriage you won’t be able to have these moments anymore, you’ll be like them married couples.
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3. Constant checking
This goes with the previous item but this time they change their approach. Instead of indirectly saying that the decision you have made is the wrong one, they keep on asking if this is what you really want and if you are sure that it is going to work! Making you doubt your decision and lucky for them if you change your mind so he wouldn’t be forced to do what he has no intention to get involved in. That could be pretty smart in fact, but it is not in your favor.
4. Mocking you
When none of the previous options work, all he is left with is nothing, so the last resort for him is to mock you and it is not only like “OMG, You want that? HAHAHA”, NO! It is more like humiliating you right in front of other people and actually expect you to be ok with it. This also happens when they are with their friends. They change the way that they are acting toward you. He is a different person when it is only the two of you but then when someone else is around he won’t stop clowning.
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5. Corrects you
After the previous two steps, if he feels like none of this is working for him, what he will do next is to start correcting you and act like he knows you better and he wants the best for you. Like there are some consequences to what you are willing to do that you cannot see right now but he does see and his only intention is to help you. Sometimes they candidly express that you do not know what you want! They know better and this is not it! Or for you to have a better life, this is not where you should go. Or even decide that they are not the best person for you!
6. The vibe
Vibe and energy wise talking, women are very intuitive and they feel things that they cannot express. It is just the matter of trusting their instinct and their gut. When someone is lying to them, they get this vibe from the person no matter how professional of a liar the person is! Sometimes when they are so emotionally attached to the person, women choose to ignore the feeling and shake it off but still, they do feel it. They are never blind in love, it is just matter of listening to their heart over the brain.
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They might be skilled liars but this can happen to everyone, to leave the receipt in the bin or in their pocket and when you are doing their laundry, you find it. Or even seeing them somewhere with someone else. Other people telling you that he is cheating on you because there is no fire without smoke and if you have the right people around you then they are not going lie to you about something that important. Or even if you see his comment under the picture of a girl that appears to be fishy.
Even in these situations, when you confront and tell them you know what they are doing. They will be in denial. They will never ever accept that what you have seen is right or what you have heard is the truth. They play the innocent card and make you feel like the bad guy and you start doubting yourself. Because if a person is truthful to you, no matter how much it is going to hurt, they are going to tell you if they are not feeling the same. They would not do anything and say anything just to keep you.
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