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Published 2018-01-09
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Things men do when they are NOT serious about the relationship!

When you are in a relationship, you keep wondering if this is the happily ever after one that you have dreamed of regardless of your gender. We all want to know if the person is the one. However, there are things you need to know to figure if your partner is ready to commit to a serious relationship or not! Commitment is a huge step which people mostly are afraid to take so in this list, we are going to present some of the signs that men are not serious about the relationship!

1. Keeps you separate from his world

1. Keeps you separate from his world

When in a relationship, if you are looking for a more serious stage of commitment, what you will do first is to let people know that you are dating this person and of course the most important part is introducing them to your family. If the guy you are dating does not make an effort to introduce you to his family then that means he does not want for things to get more serious and to have a future! Or he is not ready yet!

Check the other signs on NEXT Page!

1. Keeps you separate from his world 1

2. No future talk

When he is not that comfortable talking about you and him as a WE! That is one of the most obvious signs that the guy is not looking forward to a serious relationship and the reasons to that might be so many things! It might even be something about you! All we can say for sure is that if he evades or changes the topic each time you want to talk about the future of your relationship, that is because he does not see one! Or he is not sure if he wants that!

2. No future talk

3. Hides the relationship

Maybe, only maybe, it can be normal to hide the relationship in the early stages just because you do not know each other much or because of the situation you are in but if that takes more than just a short period of time then it is a warning! He probably will ask you not to mention that you guys are together even to your friends! That is when you know there is no future so it is better to stop the effort!

NEXT sign is a deal breaker!

3. Hides the relationship

4. Treats your needs as trivial

When you are in a relationship, caring for one another is something that needs to be done by both parties! That is what makes the relationship a healthy one! When you care about your significant other’s needs and concerns. If the relationship you are in is just a one-way street, meaning you are the only one who cares, in this case, he sees no future in that furthermore he does not go the extra miles.

4. Treats your needs as trivial

5. Priority

There is a beautiful saying that reads: "Don’t make someone a priority if they only make you an option,” and also “No one is really busy. It all depends on what number you are on their priority list." These two quotations completely capture the meaning of the title! If you are in a relationship that the guy cares about anything, literally anything but you, then it is not even a relationship! When a man is in love with you and wants to have a future with you, you are the first one on his list of priorities!

Does he not listen to you?! Check NEXT Page to see what it means!

5. Priority

6. Doesn't listen

Don’t take this one as a reason valid enough to end your relationship because there are so many sides to this! Let’s get real! Sometimes you are not on good terms, e.g. after a fight, so you cannot expect him to listen to you talking aggressively! Or sometimes we seriously are boring! Talking about so many girly things and expecting him to listen is just a little bit too much. But if it is none of the cases above, and he still is not interested in listening, then something IS wrong.

6. Doesn't listen

7. Makes all the decisions

You are the last person who learns about everything that is going to happen because he does not consult and share things with you when he is making the decisions! As a girlfriend, you have the right to be a part of the decisions that are big enough to have an impact on you and your relationship. If he only thinks about himself and settles things the way that is better for him, he sees no future in the relationship and he does not want you to be a part of anything.

The three last signs on NEXT Page!

7. Makes all the decisions

8. Lack of emotional intimacy

One of the most important things in a relationship, apart from the trust, is intimacy! That intimacy comes in two forms, physical and emotional. If all you ever get in a relationship is the physical part, not the emotional part then the relationship is not the one to last long! We all need a pat of reassurance, a hug, a press of palm something that can make us feel comfortable and reassure us of his love and if that does not exist, if he does not use terms of endearment, then he sees no future.

8. Lack of emotional intimacy

9 & 10. Feeling insecure & Zero hint of jealousy

We are not talking about being possessive, not letting you talk to anyone, telling you to dress in a certain way! What we mean here is someone who actually gives a sh*t! Someone who is afraid of losing you and shows that! Plus he makes no effort to make you feel secure in the relationship and does not make you feel loved, then you’d better leave him right now before it is too late!

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