7 Worst compliments a woman can hear from a man...
Probably all women know this feeling... You talk with a nice and handsome man, you start to think that he is so interesting and is worth to get to know him better when suddenly he says something that sounds too rude and even offensive. This can really spoil the meeting. The worst part is that some men do not realize that they made a mistake and said something inappropriate. So what "compliments" should they avoid?
"You look great for your age"
This is one of the worst compliments a man can tell a woman. Perhaps your girlfriend would seem happy at first, but then she will begin to analyze the words. She will think then that she is old and begin to look carefully at the wrinkles. Then she will cry. If you really think that your girlfriend looks great for her age, never say it to her.
Instead of this, tell her "you look great". It will be enough.
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"You are not that fat"
Women tend to complain and exaggerate. Especially when it goes about the weight. Sometimes your girlfriend is complaining that she is fat. But instead of telling her that she is thin, you say something like "You are not so fat." After such a statement she will be sad, cry or even call an argument. A woman who hears such a "compliment" will take it as a statement that she is actually fat and fall into hung-ups.
"You're fantastic! How can you still be alone?
Even if you think that you have met a woman from your dreams and even if you are wondering why such a great woman is still a single, never ask her about it! Perhaps there are some serious reasons why she is living alone. There can be a really sad story behind it or simply she could not find the one, the right man yet. By asking her such things, you can hurt her and make her feel insecure. Probably when your relationship will be stronger, you will definitely know the answer.
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"You cook as well as my mom"
You should know that women do not tolerate when they are compared to any other person, especially to the mother of her boyfriend or husband. As your partner they want to feel unique, one and only. So comparing her to your mother will make her think that she is actually worse. She might be even a great cook but this way you are putting her into hung-up. Do not be surprised if a dinner ends with a little bit of fuss.
"You look different today. Do you wear makeup? "
This is another, from the point of view of the man a perfect compliment that actually pisses the woman off. Even if your beloved spent half a day in front of the mirror, putting mascara on the lashes, having blush and choosing the right lip color, never tell her that she looks great just because she wears the makeup! You must appreciate her in every situation, her real beauty, which make-up only emphasized.
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"For a woman you're pretty funny"
Well, such "compliments" it is better not to be told to any woman. Statements like this might be taken as offensive and rude. When you say something like that, you simply show that you think women are worse than men generally or that they just cannot be good in simple things. It is better not to do such comparisons. If you really want to say a compliment to your woman, just say: "You're funny" and that's it.
"You are so sweet"
Although it might seem different, this is the next compliment that may be negatively received by the women. Maybe you have nothing wrong on your mind saying it, but your partner mostly interprets the word "sweet" as silly or childish. After that, she will think that you treated her like a child and you questioned her knowledge and intelligence. If you want to avoid misunderstandings, do not tell her she is sweet.
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"You are as cool as my colleagues"
And again the situation in which the words sounded nice, but only made the woman feel bad. As we have written before, women like and need to be the only one, and feel the best. Then they will repay you with love and affection. So do not tell her she's like your colleagues because she's all about wanting to be your favorite woman. Yes, the one you tell the secret to and you like to spend time with, but not your buddy.
"You should smile more often"
Even if your intention was to say that you like her smile, next time just tell her "Your smile is beautiful". Otherwise, she will interpret it differently! That you think she's a sad or a gloomy person. She may also think that in a rather primitive way you try to cheer her up when she is not angry at all. Remember simple means better.