9 Tips that help you have a long lasting love
The relationship is something that takes time, takes effort, and compromise. There are things that need to be considered. Things that need to be not seen. Things that need to be forgotten. Hard work all in one. However, there are so many beautiful things in it as well that people cannot wait to have it. To keep that love forever also needs so the knowledge that not everyone can teach you. You just have to go through it and experience it on your own since people are different. Despite that, we can think of some tips that can help you have an easier ride throughout your relationship. Here are 9 of them.
1. Safe zone
If you are too angry, stop talking. Calm yourself down to avoid all the name calling and irrational aggression. You need to make an environment safe enough for them to share their thoughts with you. To talk about the problems and the fears without having any fear of being attacked or even being judged. Remember that it is so important to feel comfortable with one another. You need to be with someone that you feel comfortable within a complete silence. You can make this happen by sharing feelings.
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2. Be realistic
Every single woman has a dream of where she wants to live, how she wants to her partner to be, things she always wanted to have and…
But life doesn’t always go the way you want it to. To have a better relationship and help your partner more instead of being a burden on their shoulder, you need to get out of your dream bobble and face the reality! Live in the reality and accept it. The first step of change is acceptance.
Men need your love and affection just like you! True, they don’t express it, but as we have mentioned so many times before, they might be just as emotional as you although they are putting on a cold face! Even if it is something very small, men love to feel pampered. Surprise them every now and then. Don’t wait for any special occasions to do so! It could be even a simple dining out! Think about it! Spice things up!
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Communication, communication, and communication again! Why is that so important? We will tell you all about it in a second. Communication is what you need to have if you want to move forward with your relationship. If you do not talk to your partner, he won’t know what the problem is! Women mostly overthink things which are the threat to the relationship. Sometimes talking about the tiny problems you have will prevent a huge fight from happening so why not?! Learn to talk about things that bother you because men don’t see things the way you do!
5. Don’t over complain
Following what just has been said, when you overthink, you get to some conclusion in your mind that you got to on your own and it is the beginning of dissatisfaction. The last thing your man wants to hear after a long day at work is your complaints. There is a limit to every single thing. And remember that you may not be the only one in the relationship that is frustrated! It happens to them as well. Why don’t you and your partner prepare a list of the things that worth nagging for and see who will win? Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
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6. Be friends
When it comes to this item, people are divided into two different groups one of which believes that you need to be best friends with your partner and share all your secrets with them from the tiniest thing in the past up to now. The other group believes that being your partner’s best friend is a danger to your relationship. It is your decision which one to choose but for us, the first one seems just like the right one. However, you need to remember that it takes a very high level of maturity to go down the first road.
7. Make time for one another
Even if both of you are working, since that is the only way people can manage to live a normal life, try to find some time for one another. No matter how busy you are, remember that if you need a lot of time alone, you’d better stay all alone; when you are a part of a relationship, you have to know that there is someone else that needs your love and attention as well. Plus, only cuddling with the person you love helps you with your level of stress and anxiety so make some time for it.
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8. Talk about the worst case scenarios
Talking about the possible negative things that can possibly happen in the relationship is the unpleasant talk you need to have in your relationship as it becomes more serious. Try to pose some tough situations that you both can be in and see how you both are going to react and choose the best option based on your both interest and something that can work for both of you. This also can help you a lot with the arguments and prevent unnecessary hard feelings.
This last one also goes back to how your partner needs your support through everything. Love him for whoever he is with his flaws and learn to respect that. That would be the first step, the second would be you being an example of what you want to see in him. If you try really hard to be a better person, it will have a direct and great impact on your man and he will credit you for the great changes that have happened in his life. He needs someone to be proud of!