This woman says she CANNOT have a boyfriend because she is "too attractive" and men are intimidated by her!
The potential of people to achieve what we most want is directly related to self-esteem. In addition, failure is much more likely when we suffer from low self-esteem, as we give credit to what others say when they say we are not able to achieve something. This can affect our motivation and it will be much more complicated to try something that seems difficult or tedious. Therefore, we must work with self-esteem to make success easier. But is it good to have it too high? Let's ask the protagonist of our article ...
The unfortunate in love Cherelle Neille believes that she has not been able to find a boyfriend in all this time because she is too pretty. The 26-year-old single mother, a native of Manchester, says her beautiful face is a curse because her prospective boyfriends only see her as a candy. She works as a salesgirl in a store and aspires to be an actress at some point in her life, however, her love life has been a disaster because men just want to show her to their friends and take pictures with her. What exactly happened to make me think like that? Do not miss it ...
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Cherelle also affirms that her outfits, as well as if she is an athletic figure, can make men intimidated when talking with her, something that causes most to think that she lacks a pleasant personality. Since then, the dazzling girl has renounced love, since she is tired of men objectifying her. Now she simply wants someone to notice her because of her character rather than her appearance. The former model said: "I feel as though plain Janes have it easier because men will actually get to know their personality as their looks are merely average."
"Whereas for me, it's always the wrong attention, they never want to know me as a person. Plain girls end up with the long-lasting relationships and I'm the one kissing all the frogs. I am sick of people assuming I am nasty when I am really a lovely person. My looks attract the wrong guys and it has been really hard, now I am completely over men. They continually think just because I'm good looking, I am going to be rude or stuck up. They say to me 'oh you think you are too good-looking don't you?' - which is ridiculous."
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Cherelle added: "Whenever I am on a date, they only care about what I look like, they never even listen to what I am saying. My last boyfriend just paraded me around to his friends and only cared about having his photo taken with me. No man I've met so far is ever actually interested in having a conversation with me." Cherelle, who has more than 23,000 followers on Instagram, also receives a steady stream of abusive messages online. She says that being attractive has not only affected her life, but also her friendships.
"Girls are jealous too, I only really have one friend. There was this one time I was clubbing with my friend and when we were in the bathroom, loads of girls I didn't know were complimenting me, my hair and my looks. Then suddenly my friend walked out and left the club, and she hasn't talked to me since! If I see a pretty girl I will definitely tell them every time what I love about them, it's nice to be nice. I just don't associate myself with many girls as friends anymore."
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"I find a lot of girls are insecure and don't know how to compliment each other, other than the drunk strangers in bathrooms. On my Instagram, I receive countless spiteful messages. One girl messaged me saying "you think you're so pretty but you're not, go kill yourself." Another guy recently messaged me saying "you think you are too good for everyone." I just wish people didn't judge a book by its cover because I am not like that."
Cherelle says she has been having problems with her love life for years. With failed relationships and disastrous appointments, wishing that your body stops attracting the wrong attention…
"This one time when I was on a date, I remember something had happened in the news that day. I was sharing my view on the event, and this guy was not listening in the slightest. He kept telling me I was pretty and wasn't listening, I then said thank you, and carried on asking him what he thought of it. He didn't care and kept talking about my looks and in the end, he hadn't listened to a word I was saying." Do not miss her words...
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Cherelle added: "I think it's hard having men not actually know me for me, I am funny and I love to have a laugh. Girls that are more average-looking get to have those conversations with men and I have to be stuck with men not listening to a word I say. Now I just can't be bothered with dating anymore. I don't want to be less pretty, I just wish men would treat me differently."
"I think there is a serious problem in society today with the way they treat pretty women."
Well, we could say that this has been happening for a long time, and while it is true that this girl may seem somewhat arrogant to say how she feels, it seems that she has every reason in the world. It can become exhausting for all men to talk continuously about a girl's physique without paying attention to other details, such as character or personality. That really shows what a man wants to get from a girl like Cherelle.
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