If he never texts first but always replies, there is a reason for it and we know what it is!
Texting has become a great part of our everyday communication, and if you do not know how to do it then you are done! There are so many unspoken rules to it and so many abbreviations that can confuse you easily. Like when someone starts, their text with TBH and you spend the whole time thinking what that TBH means without even reading the rest of the text! You feel me?! So it is normal for it to be a part of a relationship between the two lovers or potential lovers. Some of us are so annoyed when we do not receive a message from someone right away….
Or if they do not text us first, then we want nothing to do with that person anymore. We luckily have the reasons why he doesn't text you first! What you need to know before going through the reasons is that, remember that if you have just met, their possibility of him texting you first is not really that high! Imagine what the odds are when you have not even met! So keep calm and be realistic as you go through all of the mentioned points in this article to be able to find out what the real problem is!
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He is not sure
Just like how the ladies are super cautious, and they are afraid to wear their hearts on their sleeves because they are worried they will end up with their heart broken, men are the same sometimes! Just because they are not sure if you are the person whom they can trust, they do not text you first because they do not want to be involved in something that later on, they have to be even tougher going through the consequences. Also, he may not feel that confident so when you text first, he is sure that you want to talk to him.
He does not want to be annoying
We all have to know that one guy who had been texting us to the point that we decided to block him or we picked up a fight with him over how clingy he was. He might have also been there, so he does not want to be the one that is clingy this time because he does not want to lose you. He wants to have enough time to talk to you, and he also is not quite a fan of pushing too hard and end up as the annoying one! He is playing it safe. Maybe even too safe!
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He is busy
This one depends on how long it is that you guys know each other. Remember that for a fact, you are not a priority in his life when you have just met or when you are just getting to know each other without even meeting one another once! This is completely normal. Your significant other has a life that is aside from you. A life that he has created without you in it and now that you are going to be a part of it, it is not that easy to change the arrangement of everything. Wait a while. He might change his priorities.
He is keeping you at the arm’s length
Have you ever thought that maybe he is doing this because he is in a relationship?! A relationship he wants to be committed to?! Or maybe he has commitment issues, and he does not want to drag you down with him! Yes! It is possible. This for sure means that he wants to stay far, not to get so close to you for whatever reason. The reason might also be a lot of more things that we will mention in the rest of the points in the article.
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He is not looking for a relationship
Yes! He may not be looking for a relationship! Why not! Do you think only girls are allowed to choose?! Men can also decide whether at that moment they are ready for a relationship or not. Whether they feel like they can go on with the new thing in their life like before. Sometimes they have so much on their plate that they know if they let you in, they are going to lose so many other things that they have worked so hard for so they do not risk it! They prefer to go with the things that are more important to them.
You text too often
Just check all the messages that you have sent him and see if you were the ones who texted him almost every day or not. How long do you spend on texting him and waiting for his reply! Do you even wait a day or two to see if he is going to text you or not?! Remember that we do not want to seem like stalkers. The key here is to keep him wanting more, about which we will talk more in the rest of the articles on the page. You need to sometimes play hard to get as well. Do not put yourself out there easily.
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He is playing hard to get
Now we have told you that sometimes you need to play hard to get, there are times that he is the one who is trying hard to get and it is not fine because you end up being the clingy one. You are the one trying to contact him and to gain his interest while he is playing the role that is supposed to be played by the lady in the relationship, not the guy! What you can do is to stop texting him for a while and see what is going to happen. If he texts you saying he has not heard from you in long, then you know that he is into you as well!
He is clueless
The only thing that is left is that whether he just cannot see all the hints, you have been dropping or that he does not actually like you! If the second one is the answer, then why is he answering your texts constantly?! This cannot be the case. He definitely is blind or dumb and is unable to find out that you have feelings for him! Maybe you just need to confess and say it all, and he would know that way, which is actually a quite risky move, so it is better left undone!
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