How to text a man so that he would desire you more
Phones can make your life easier. They also give you the chance to keep in touch with friends and with your partner! Wherever you are, you can flirt with each other and tell some funny stories. And when you are in a long distance relationship then texting seems to be such a precious thing. However, you’d better be careful about the way how you text. You may not have thought about it but you can even discourage someone or annoy if you don’t take some things into account. This article provides you with the rules that can help your love and communication.
Avoid one-word messages
How do you feel when you spend a lot of time to write him a funny story or something that is very interesting for you and his response is ‘yeah’, ‘cool’ or something similar? Probably a little bit disappointed. It’s actually annoying... Well, it doesn’t mean that you should always reply using several sentences but try to put some effort into your communication. It’s doesn’t have to be elaborate but when you tend to send one-word messages then it may be a sign that you’re trying to put him off or you’re just bored.
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Wait for his response
Are you angry when he doesn’t reply after a few seconds? So you probably text him even more and ask why he didn’t respond you. That’s very desperate and obsessive but indeed, there are such women. don’t be one of them! You need more patience and consideration. Give him more time because he may be busy at that moment or someone else asked him for help. If he cares about you then he will text you back anyway (hopefully not after a few days…) and you don’t have to force him to do that.
Not when you’re drunk
When you’re drunk, it may be tempting to text him something. You have a good time, fun, happiness and also lots of crazy ideas in your mind… The messages won’t be probably the same in that situation. They may be stupid and annoying... Drunk people have problems with being tactful and considerate and tend to say things that are either painfully honest or just totally rude. You are likely to regret them later. Are you willing to explain what you’ve done at the party last night? If you don’t want to discourage him, then you’d better text him when you’re sober.
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Who likes people who tend to complain about anything and talk about their problems all the time? Do you want to suck his positive energy and make him depressed? If he is already sad and stressed, then your miserable messages are just the last thing that he wants to see. Instead, you should be his light, support, hope! Everything that can change his mood for the better, not destroy his day. If your messages are rather bright and upbeat then he will be also more eager to keep in touch with you.
It’s ok to text him first
Oh, don’t be so traditionalist! Do you really think that guys should pick up the girls, ask them out and text them first? Make the move! If he hasn’t contacted you for one or two days then it’s ok to ask him what’s up or how he is feeling. You may be already worried why he isn’t sending you anything so it’s better to find out and show that you still care. Probably he is very busy and thinks the same of you. That’s why he will jump with joy seeing that you miss him and didn’t forget about his existence.
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Don’t use yes or no answers
You should stay away from them! How can you expect any progress in your relationship when you just respond him with yes or no messages? He will be finally bored with making new questions to find out something about you or entertain you. And won’t learn much about him! If you want your relationship to develop then it would be easier to convey more elaborate messages. It gives the chance to react someone to them and it also makes the conversation much more fascinating.
Avoid texting when you have a serious problem
If any problem or an argument occur then it’s better to have a face-to-face conversation. It’s easier to deal with difficult matters such as hidden truth, potential betrayal or some tough decision that you are going to make when you see each other. It gives you an opportunity to observe some nonverbal signals that can tell you a lot and try to understand your decisions. Texting won’t solve your problems, it can even make the argument more fierce!
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Respect his time and privacy
Well, you don’t have to bombard him with lots of messages since the early morning. And you don’t need to know what he had for breakfast or what he is wearing today. Why are you so curious and nosy? He may be really annoyed with your conversation. Give him more privacy and freedom. It’s not a big deal when you don’t text for a few hours or the whole day. Everyone has the right to have some passion, different priorities or just spend some time in isolation. You are not deprived of this right when you get into the relationship, although, it’s better to let your partner know that you won’t be able to text them for some time.
Don’t gossip about others
Gossipping - this is a very tempting thing. Men are not that willing to gossip, but women are quite addicted to it. However, you should take into account the fact that his phone may be also used by someone else… What if you gossip about his mum telling him what you dislike about her and she happens to see the message while cleaning her son’s room? Well, that is very unlucky, rare situation but still, may occur. It’s better not to tempt fate and not write offensive things about his family or friends as it can backfire on you.
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