IncredibleEmotionalTips

Published 2018-04-16
0 Comment

9 Biggest MISTAKES women make in relationships

In most relationships, we find that women often sin with the same mistakes. Far from wanting to think that women are the culprits of all the failures in the couple's life or the motivators of any conflict, we encourage you to see this little list and try to say all together: "mea culpa". Then it will be in women's hands if they want to change or if they prefer to continue with their personal brand.

1. Try to change your partner

1. Try to change your partner

The first day women meet their boy, they feel the happiest women on the Earth. Unfortunately, when they get to know him, those little negative aspects begin to appear, all of which they are obliged to polish to perfect it. This usually generates a feeling of discomfort in their partner, as it is usually accompanied by fights, criticism, and feelings of loss of identity that ends up making him a very different person.

Click on NEXT page to read the rest of the content of the post!

1. Try to change your partner 1

2. Wanting him to guess your thinking

While it is true that in many cases women boast of having an almost telepathic empathy, in the case of men they are almost blind. For that reason when women want to be understood by men, to know what they need or when it is necessary to understand that they are doing something wrong, it is much better to tell them to wait for them to guess what women are thinking at that moment. And, of course, women cannot retaliate if men do not succeed.

2. Wanting him to guess your thinking

3. Use silence to teach

Sometimes we say a lot more being silent than opening our mouths. But that does not mean we should use this resource to try to "educate" our partners - we are actually resorting to the previous point. It is always much better to talk and express our thoughts since we will encourage the person to know us better and really know what we need. After all, the goal is that and not to transform our partner into an extension of our thinking. Some attitudes are so negative that they can make you lose your boy.

Click on NEXT page to read the rest of the content of the post!

3. Use silence to teach

4. Choking

There are those who control their partners so much that they suffocate him. Not leaving personal areas, personal friendships or independent activities greatly limits your own living space or comfort. This usually ends up causing a sensation so negative that it causes unnecessary hatred, reproaches or even a change in the behavior of a couple. Always try to understand that your partner is someone independent and has their own personal needs.

4. Choking

5. Not knowing how to listen

Despite the fact that this is not the biggest problem that women have, there are many who are guilty of not knowing how to listen to the feelings, needs and frustrations of their partner. This makes women act in a somewhat more selfish way, thinking that to please, what women think is necessary, will be more than enough. In the end, communication is eliminated and our ability to understand each other is reduced.

Click on NEXT page to read the rest of the content of the post!

5. Not knowing how to listen

6. Do not stop talking

A very characteristic complement of the women that we see reflected in the previous section is precisely this. They cannot stop talking and, besides, they do not like to be interrupted. To make matters worse, they do not allow the other to take control once they have finished, so either they have a different topic or they just leave. If your boy does not have anything interesting to say to you, better try to change the style "monologue" and encourage more participation from both.

6. Do not stop talking

7. Being excessively jealous

There are those who check phones for clues, who detect suspect fragrances, who gossip personal photos or even his acquaintances in search of any clue that leads to that infidelity that he does not want to confess. But the problem is that, in most cases, it is a simple obsession that has no foundation. In the long run, the other person begins to tire of having a Sherlock Holmes as a couple and can even separate. Or to have a real adventure to be able, at least, to have the "positive" side of infidelity and not just the quarrels without doing anything.
Our thinking also leads us to admit the following two mistakes.

Click on NEXT page to read the rest of the content of the post!

7. Being excessively jealous

8. Do not think about themselves

Women tend to think they know what their partners need. Our moments of personal recreation, our whims or even time to regenerate mentally is often something women discard for trying to be in a couple. Sometimes it is even in intimate moments when women forget their desires and become only machines to satisfy. Only by hearing common needs, we will have love, trust, and long-term relationship.

8. Do not think about themselves

9. Believe that they have to be happy

This great truth is the one that will close the list: your partners do not exist to make you happy, it is not their job, although many times you forget about it. Your boy does not have to do everything possible to get you a smile or to buy you everything you wish or always try to make your life a fairy tale. Just as you do not have to do the same either. If you are not able to meet this point, it is better that you will learn to love each other independently and then start with the couples.

9. Believe that they have to be happy

Do not hesitate to share this article with everyone and leave a Like on our Facebook page!
And do not forget to follow us on Instagram and Twitter.

If you like our Page stay updated and active our notifications. Go to the Following section on Facebook and select See First! Thanks to this you won't miss any of our articles!
Source: Pixabay.com

9. Believe that they have to be happy 1
0
What do you think? Join the conversation

Celebrity couples who you forgot were once together
Follow us