5 Stages of love: the 3rd is the most difficult to overcome...
Those of us who live in modern times generally soon notice that very few people can boast of having been engaged in a loving relationship with someone who is really their "Other half". Breakouts are common and can be caused by various factors, the most frequent of which is the incompatibility in all senses. While we often come to cherish and find our happiness in the company of a loved one, there are thousands upon thousands of people who feel unable to form a stable partner.
In spite of the fact that, in such a situation, we often blame another person, or the circumstances that are independent of us (or, just, we begin to rack our minds about the reason for what something happened), recent scientific research shows that is much less complex than it seems. As a psychologist, Jed Diamond explains, the truth is that any relationships can become perfect. The only problem is that not all boyfriends are strong enough to go through the 5 stages of their union.
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Falling in love is the first and most anxious phase of any love relationship. When the happiness hormones take over your body and emotions, you really believe that life is beautiful and pink, and it will remain the same next to your most beloved being. You look only at good and agreeable things, trusting that the love you are experiencing is capable of erasing everything that you have experienced previously. It seems to you that you are living a fairy tale and that nothing can overcome or destroy that state. That's when Stage 2 arrives.
One of the typical features of the true beginning of your life as a couple is the existence of a formal and announced commitment. Your boyfriend (or girlfriend) stops being a person with whom you set appointments and becomes someone you feel responsible for. By knowing this other person better and better, you feel loved and understood; both of you realize that you are made for each other. In some cases, at this time, people decide to marry and form a family together.
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When it seems that nothing can be better, disappointment comes at play. This is the most difficult phase to cope with. Although you are aware that your life partner has flaws, from one moment to the other you start to feel less and less at ease with them. While some people are aware of it step by step, others discover it in an instant. Suddenly you begin to believe that everything that was between you and your boy is finished and there is no way to recover it. After all, you would not want to spend all your life with him.
Although they are few, those who find the strength necessary to overcome these times, it is worth it to do it: afterward, everything becomes easier! After the crisis, you realize that what you feel for your loved one is a real love. Even in spite of its flaws and personality traits that make you angry, it fills your love for your partner, and it's a mutual feeling. Acceptance and understanding are the ideas most related to the penultimate stage.
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As soon as both sides of the relationship realize the strength of their feelings, they realize that - even in spite of the difficult moments typical of any lovemaking - true affection and the will to improve one's life can overcome all obstacles. In this last phase, the feelings between the two are well developed and mature: they share plans, goals and many memories that turn their nexus into something unique and unrepeatable.
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Always remember that bad times are transient and can end up turning into valuable experiences that you cannot experience if it wasn’t for this one. While it may be difficult at times, true feelings can find the way to commitment and reconciliation. Begin to realize the defects of both, and accept the things you cannot change. Then make sure your loved one does the same. Only in this way can you form a couple worthy of admiration, which can be treated as an example to follow.
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