6 True facts about the men they always try to hide...
There is a lot of data about men and women that we already know. For example, CNN reported that life expectancy for men in the US is 81.1 years, compared to 76.1 for females. However, there are other curiosities that men always try to hide from others, especially their female counterparts. We do not know exactly if it is because they feel guilty, or simply do not believe that their partners will understand; they all have secrets to keep.
Without further ado, below you will find some truthful data that will call you enough attention…
Men and clothes
Before entering into the true secrets, we will talk about a concrete fact about men. When they are younger, they can wear somewhat tighter clothing because their bodies are still growing and such garments do not cause them discomfort.
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But according to Real Men Real Style, as men begin to age, they develop greater confidence and stop wearing tight clothing; they prefer to feel more comfortable, so they choose to use things that stretch easily (more elastic) or wider pants because they know their place in the world.
According to a woman named Bonnie Winston, who is a psychologist who is an expert in relational coaching,
Financial problems are one of the main reasons why relationships and marriages end. She mentions that a couple she met had a big expense problem; both parties tried to hide their own purchases. Despite this, Dr. Carolina Madden, a family and marriage therapist, says that men are more prone to keeping these kinds of secrets, such as not being able to pay certain bills, because they do not want to worry their partners, thus maintaining the strength.
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David Bennett, certified counselor, and author say that men will simulate interests based on what attracts a woman the most. He also goes on to say that men believe that this is a good way to get out on a first date. But, this can also become a major problem in the future, because it is deceptive for one of the parties to think that you are something that you are not. This is constantly done by men, and the situation can cause them to continue in the same way (lying).
In fact, a study published in Nature Neuroscience states that the human brain adapts to dishonesty. Even if it is the smallest lies, it can cause the person to end up feeling bad about himself, even though the negative impact may eventually disappear. In that case, it will allow someone to continue lying without any remorse. Also, Amber Madison, the author of the book "Are All Guys A**holes???"
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She surveyed more than 1,000 men to see if they would lie to sleep with a woman. She discovered that 35% would lie about the commitment they would offer a woman to be able to sleep with her.
Secrets about past relationships
According to Eric Hunt, who is a marriage coach in Myrtle Beach, most men do not feel comfortable arguing about their past relationships, which can be a big mistake in a new couple.
The past will always be the past, but hiding the truth will only make everything worse when it ends up coming to light. Hunt says being honest about these failed relationships can even make your present one much more successful. Helen Fisher, a senior researcher at the Kinsey Institute and a scientific advisor at Match.com, explained that the reason we have these memories of bad relationships is that the brain is designed to cling to them. In addition, this occurs as a way of reminding us why these relationships did not work.
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Hide your real emotions
Douglas E. Noll, who is a professional mediator and author of the book "De-Escalate," says that, among all the things that men prefer to hide, vulnerability is the greatest. Is it possible that men are as emotional as women? Research suggests that it is completely possible. A 2014 study conducted by Dr. David Lewis showed that men experienced emotional changes during an emotional project just like women. But when it came to expressing such emotions, they were not as willing as their female counterparts.
Hiding details can ruin a relationship
Arthur Aron, an assistant researcher at Stony Brook University in New York, says that romantic relationships help people expand. This provides exploration, growth, and learning, but also brings passions and interests. However, when the lack of confidence arises, Aron says it carries the opposite impact. In addition, he adds that the lack of confidence makes the world smaller in a relationship, causing both parties to test and control each other due to insecurities and fear. In addition, deception and guilt can reduce a person's self-esteem, making someone feel useless and leading to insecurities and depression.