This is how you can notice that a man likes you
Men are mysterious creatures and it's not easy to know their intentions and feelings. They may hide them skillfully or send ambiguous signs. What if you are desperate to know what your crush thinks about you? This article gives you a few guidelines so that you could read in his mind like in a book. Now it will be easier to tell if he returns your love too or if he is totally uninterested in getting to know you more.
If he is not interested then he won't ask questions. That's for sure. Maybe he will ask about the way to the nearest cinema or if you finished the project at work but he won't ask personal questions. Does he often ask you how you feel or how you managed to cope with some problem? Maybe he asks you about your family? If so, then that's good news for you! Of course, you should always let him know that you are interested too by asking about something.
Well, if he is just a friend and wants to stay this way then you can talk about other guys from your life and he won't be bothered. If so, then there's little hope he will want to date you unless he knows perfectly how to pretend ignorance. Usually, looking at his face and reaction you can immediately tell if he is ok or not with the fact that some other guy asked you out… Look at his eyes and you will know.
If you are at the party dancing with some guy and someone asks for your number it means he likes you and finds you attractive. Or if you know each other for some time and he finally asks for your number then it means he wants to know you more and communicate more often. This is an apparent sign of him being interested in you. So don't take it with a pinch of salt! This may be your great chance for a relationship!
You know he is busy during the day but still, you can count on his nice messages which always make you smile. And when he knows you have some free time he’s calling you even if he doesn’t have any excuse to contact you. This is a sign indicating that he thinks of you even if he has little time or other things to concentrate on. And he cares about you as he wants to know that you’re safe and ok.
He doesn’t have a girlfriend and seems to be interested only in you! Of course, he has female friends too but he rarely talks about them and prefers talking about stuff that is common for you. When you are somewhere around pretty girls then you can wait for him to check them out and maybe comment on them but it never comes. He seems to be oblivious to other women’s attributes and keeps talking with you. He likes you!
When you talk to each other he always listens to you attentively. And then it turns out that he doesn’t only pretend, he really memorizes all the facts and even unimportant things that you tell him. Then suddenly he asks you how was your project, if your boss liked it or if your sister finally found a new flat. Even your pets or a diet are something he wants to know about. Thanks to this your conversations are honest and you have no problem to find subjects to discuss. Good sign!
Well, in the beginning, when you only start getting to know each other, he may be afraid of asking straightforward if you have a boyfriend. However, if he realizes that he likes you more and more then this question won’t be a problem. Probably he doesn’t want to interfere in your life too much if you do have a boyfriend. Or he wants to be sure that he has a green light to continue this relationship and gets to know you more.
Men sometimes have difficulty showing their emotions and they definitely won't do it in front of a girl whom they don’t like and don’t trust. so if he opens up when you're together then it means you are not just ‘some friend’. He doesn’t treat your relationship only as casual, occasional talk. This is much more important to him and he obviously likes you very much.
Little, nice things
He comes over to your work with a coffee, he buys chocolate when you don’t feel good or maybe he prepares some unexpected surprise that will obviously make you happy? Well, he wouldn’t do these things for a stranger or a girl who is totally indifferent to him. But for you, he could do anything even if you don’t ask him for it. This is definitely another sign indicating that he cares about you.
Now let's see how his body reveals his feelings! If you notice the following signs then it means he is interested in you!
Body language is extremely important. One of the elements of non-verbal communication is the body posture, which indicates interpersonal relations, this means the way of expressing feelings and attitudes between partners. Body language can help determine whether our partner thinks about us seriously or whether he treats the relationship in a disrespectful way. Sometimes when we are not sure what a person wants from us, the body language that they use can be a hint for us.
1. He raises his eyebrows
Raising our eyebrows is a sign of surprise and disbelief. In combination with intense eye contact and a smile, raising eyebrows is a sign of interest. Men doing this try to attract women's attention. Sometimes, such a look is an encouragement to flirt, but in most cases, men show interest in another person. This is one of the most unconscious reactions of our body, which is hard to control. People open their eyes wider to see exactly what they like. If he raises his eyebrows even gently when talking to you, that means he's really interested in what you have to say.
2. His discreet touch
A discreet touch is not a gesture that men do by accident, not at all. If they do this sign, they do this on purpose. Provoking a woman is something that makes them happy and fun, they like when others pay attention to them. This type of gesture is very nice if it is made with taste, showing interest in the opposite sex is the most on the spot. If you notice this type of gesture shown by a man, this is definitely a good sign. This means nothing less than he is interested in you in a romantic way.
3. He's close to you
The man will always try to approach his woman in any way possible. Being next to the chosen one of his heart, they will do anything to touch your clothes or hair. Such small gestures indicate that your partner cannot stand without you for a long time. Psychologists confirm that the less distance between two people the better. When a man is interested in you and wants to have a romantic relationship with you, he will surely do his best to reduce the distance between you and him.
4. He shows his front teeth
Men generally stop laughing at their 'full mouth' at the age of about 5, unless they are really very happy. During an innocent flirting, he can control himself, but when he's on a great date with you - this is a completely different situation. Then, he certainly will not be able to restrain himself and during the next jokes, he will laugh at it with his all mouth showing his teeth. It means nothing more than he feels comfortable and really good with you, so girls - appreciate it in your man.
5. He walks next to you
When a man walks ahead of a woman, it means nothing less than he is more concentrated on himself than on his woman. On the other hand, if he is interested in you, he will adjust his step to your steps, though. Well, unless you go through a large crowd of people or you are in a dangerous situation, then he will surely overtake you several steps just to pave the way for you. If you have noticed this sign in a man's behavior, know that this element of his body language means more than you may suppose!
6. He holds your hand really tight
This is a very important sign when it comes to your man's body language! In a situation, while holding hands, his hand is directed to your hands, it means that he desires to be in full contact with you and to have an intimate relationship with you. When you intertwine your fingers together, it also means interest. On the other hand, if a boy does not want to open his hand completely or bends it in a way that may seem strange to you, it means that he is hiding something (literally hiding).
7. He looks to the sides while talking
Remember that a man is a male defending his territory. If he looks around but asks you a lot of questions, it may mean that he either wants to locate a possible threat or that he is very shy, but so in love with you and does everything to prevent you from noticing that he really does it. If he looks around and seems not to be interested in talking to you, just don't hesitate and give up on him. This behavior means that the guy is looking for another opportunity.
8. His feet are pointed in your direction
The subconscious mind has the greatest impact on them. Body language experts say that "feet indicate the direction in which our heart wants to go." When you see that his feet are pointed straight at you, you can be sure that you are a person really close to his heart. Of course, the situation is also important in observing his behavior. If you touch his arm and see his feet move away - he's not interested in you anymore and you're just wasting time spending it with him...
9. He looks at your face, not your eyes
You may think that the man interested in you will not be able to take his eyes off you, but these days it does not work. In the era of smartphones and the Internet, eye-to-eye contact makes people feel uncomfortable. So the new rule goes like this - if, for most of the time spent together (most of it starts here around 80%) his eyes are circling your face from the eyes to the lips, it shows his interest. Do not run away if he does not stare at your eyes - it's a change of behavior, not lack of interest in you!