How to know that you're in a right relationship
Relationships tend to be tricky. Sometimes you have doubts and don't know if this what is destined for you. Sometimes you are stuck in a wrong relationship but you've already got used to the unhappiness it brings. It's good to know how the 'right' relationship looks like. Everything is totally different, you are purely happy, excited and every new day is like a new page of a fairy tale for you. Let's see how your relationship works for you.
You're attracted both to his mind and body. He can always impress you with his knowledge, make you smile and also you are equally happy to share your intimate moments. You are just certain that even when your beauty fades away and you're old and wrinkly, you will still enjoy having conversations or doing mundane things. You are so attracted to your partner that no one else compares to him.
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Sometimes you probably agree to do things he likes, for example, you watch a match with him or go cycling as he wants a companion. In return, he often goes shopping with you or tolerates soap opera that you watch in your bedroom. However, if you manage to find things that you both enjoy then it's just perfect. No matter if it's painting, running, cooking out in the gym - it gets you closer!
Doing things apart
If you are in a right relationship then you don't have to give up doing things that you enjoy. Partners should be understanding and allow each other to have some freedom while doing things separately. So you don't complain if he has his own band and sings in your garage for many hours and he is ok with the fact that you enjoy Zumba classes with your friends. This way you will never view a relationship as if you are in a cage or handcuffed...
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This may be considered as a not so vital issue but indeed, if you are able to keep his secrets and protect your privacy and he does the same in return then this is a good sign of being in a right relationship. If you don't call all your friends and gossip about all your personal things or some of his drawbacks as you cannot resist then it means you respect him. And respect is an important factor in every happy relationship.
Enjoying mundane things
Are you excited when you go shopping together or it's more like a nightmare? Do you like painting a bedroom with him or you want him to do it alone? Are you eager to cook with him for half of the day or you feel like doing something different then? Mundane chores and your approach to them really matters. If you enjoy performing any tasks, even the most tedious ones, with your partner and no one needs to force you to do that, then it must be a right relationship!
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A good team
Do you become rivals when it comes to performing some task together or you can cooperation without fighting? As a couple, you should be like a team in which you understand each other and know how to compromise. Constant fighting, competition and boasting about your own successes are probably not what you expect from your dream relationship. So you'd better engage in duties or activities that can show how effectively you can work together to check if you're in a right relationship.
Your friends’ feedback
Not all your friends and relatives will be excited about the fact that you are together. However, it’s better to pay attention to the feedback that you get from them. If they like you as a couple in general and often emphasize that you look very happy together then it probably means that you feel the same and this is the right relationship. But if they try to discourage both of one of you from staying together then maybe you should take into account their words.
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Ideally, you should be compatible in your bed and have similar desires. However, in reality, it may not be that perfect. He may prefer different positions and you are more eager to do it in the evening whereas he always feels like making love in the morning. But as long as you know how to compromise and enjoy your passionate moments of intimacy then it’s fun. The problems start when you can live without it, or once a week is just enough whereas he wants you naked in bed at least once a day...
Dating a guy who doesn't have the slightest desire to settle down is a challenge if you dream about starting a family. So when you share similar goals and plan your future together then you are in a right relationship. Not all visions for the future need to be the same but generally, your perspectives shouldn’t be too diverse. If he is certain about staying in his home in a small town and you dream of moving to some big city then it may just lead to arguments… But in a right relationship everything is possible and after all, you know how to compromise.