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Published 2018-06-28
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9 Useful tips to keep your relationship together

It seems that some time ago relationships were stronger and long-term commitment was not an exception. And now? You hear all the time about painful breakups, shocking divorces and temporary relationships without any future. Relationships don't require so much from partners to last, just a few essential needs and rules that you always obey. Let's see them all.

1. Trust

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If this basic factor is in your relationship then you can relax and not worry about any betrayals or deceits. You don't hide any secrets, you can tell the truth without fear of being misunderstood or ridiculed. And you also cherish your own privacy making sure that any personal issues don't escape your relationship. If there's no trust then there's no serious relationship.

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2. Attention

You probably remember your childhood, all the carefree moments and attention that you received from your parents. They cared about your marks at schools, achievements, and things that you had done for the first time. Now you should provide your partner with the same. Life can be busy but try to stop from time to time and concentrate entirely on your partner. Show him that you care, appreciate and admire even the slightest things he does.

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3. Safety

This factor isn’t only about physical safety when you are eager to defend your partner if someone or something attacks him. Safety is when you don’t attack your partner with rude words and fierce actions. It's when you don’t ridicule and offend just to feel superior. If you don’t want him to feel insecure and lose his self-esteem then show him that he can feel safe and comfortable with you.

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4. Respect

Respect is definitely a basic need. If you show your respect then you don’t look down on your partner and treat him like a toy or a temporary lover. Showing respect means taking someone seriously, as an equal partner. He is just as an important human being as you are. If there is mutual respect without anger and disregard then it means that this relationship has a solid foundation to thrive.

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5. Intimacy

There is no serious, prospering relationship without intimacy. And it doesn’t mean you need to go to bed and share passionate moments a few times a day! Sometimes just a tender cuddle, hug or kiss mean a lot! And make those moments deep and valuable concentrating on your mutual needs, desires, feelings, thoughts. If you manage to practice this then you can establish a genuine bond.

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6. Space

You can’t feel like in a prison when you are in a relationship. You should be able to maintain your own identity. No one wants to voluntarily deprive of their authenticity and independence. You should accept the fact that he wants to see his own friends from time and he shouldn't argue about your trips or interests that you need to continue alone. Allow your relationship to breathe!

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7. Playfulness

This factor is often neglected. But it can very essential in your everyday busy life! When you come back from work you probably don’t want any more stress, pressure and horrifying deadlines with an awful, yelling boss. You don't want to see your partner to finally feel comfortable, secure and relaxed. Instead of additional fights over unimportant things or complaining about your bad they always have a chance to laugh and have fun together!

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8. Communication

Partners often reduce the time for communication to the minimum. Silent treatment, being preoccupied with some other things, doing chores or pursuing your own interests - and where is the time to talk together? In every prospering relationship partners always find time to talk effectively and listen to each other. They are both interested in their opinions, solutions, points of view - this way they can feel valued for each other.

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9. Sharing tasks

If you want a successful relationship, you cannot rely solely on your partner when it comes to doing the chores. If only one partner puts efforts into the functioning of your household and generally your relationship then it won’t work for a long time as it’s just unfair. Whether it's doing the shopping, collecting kids from school or cleaning your flat you should share everything to build a successful relationship. This way, no disputes and angry fighting will take place.

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