10 Signs that a man is carrying a broken heart and all the women should know
When you meet a new guy and you start dating, you may have many doubts about their behavior from the beginning. If he is very indecisive and his way of being is a bit strange, maybe it is because he has a past that he is not over it yet. Many situations can affect the way we act and we will certainly never know 100% of a person, except one that we have just encountered. Here we will tell you some signs that the man you are with is probably broken-hearted.
1. Talk about your ex
It is normal to talk about your ex, but many people tend to talk about their past partners as if they had been hurt to death. Speaking all the time about these people is harmful and is not recommended at the beginning of a new relationship, this means that someone’s hurt them in other periods of time before you get to their life. When this happens, it is difficult for the situation to improve. They say that men fall in love much deeper than a woman.
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2. Doubt in committing
Even though your relationship goes perfectly, he always talks about the hesitation of commit and has never mentioned a future with you. He does not know what he wants: whether to keep distance or get closer to you. This means that someone in his past broke his heart and that is why he is afraid of surrendering in the same way he did on that occasion because it did not turn out as he wanted. Do not take it personally, they are psychological problems that can be solved with time.
3. Make negative comments about love
When he talks about love, he cannot help speaking contemptuously, it sounds as if his hope in that feeling has vanished over time. This may mean that some situation or person broke hopes and dreams in the past and has not yet managed to overcome it. You can help him overcome this, but if he does not want to forget this, it will be impossible and it will go wrong in the end. Follow us to know more about this...
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He always acts super mysterious when they talk about his personal life. He never gives much information in his conversations. You do not know many things about him and fail in every attempt to meet this man, which makes the distance between the two even more difficult. This means that you still need to know more and that someone in the past has broken their trust, that is why they are defending themselves from new people, they cannot afford to break their hearts once more.
5. Emotionally unavailable
It is not possible to generalize, but normally men are those who are in a not available emotional state, more than women. If your boy goes from being one day the most sentimental and open man to someone who simply does not want to talk to you about anything serious, it means that he probably has an internal conflict with himself that only he can release over time. Continue on our page to learn more about the topic...
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6. Confidence problems
He will trust you, but he will stay away for a while until he can open up blindly. This will probably happen after a few months of a relationship. Do not feel guilty, maybe he had a very bad situation with his ex and he doesn’t want to risk it so early. It will feel bad that he is not able to talk to you about all the issues that you want to touch, this is a sign that he has a broken heart; even more, than you imagine. Give him time and the two will achieve what they want so much.
7. Stories about the ex
When he tells a horrible story about his past that hurts him a lot and mentions his ex at some point. Every detail ends up talking about her again and when you are having a fight, he reminds you of those bad times as if it were you. This is the worst thing anyone can do, probably at this point, you should not even try harder, it will not change until he has completely forgotten about it. Continue reading with us to know more about the topic...
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8. Compares you with his ex
He compares you each time he can with his ex, saying that you are better or that you would not do something that she did. This type of situation is bad, it is bad for your self-esteem and you will always get hurt by this behavior. If he usually does this, run and do not manage to change it, because you are not the problem, the ghost of his last girlfriend has not left and he knows it, so he needs to convince himself that you will be a better option than the other girl. Do not let them relate to another person in that way, you are unique and you do not deserve that treatment.
9. Terrible self-image
When you tell him he's very handsome, he replies that it's a lie, it means that his heart is broken and he needs someone's true love, you could help with this. If he always talks about himself in a super negative way and seems anxious about this topic, leave it for peace and change the subject. Give him a hug and a kiss, that's the only thing you can help with. Confidence recovers with time.
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