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Published 2018-07-17
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Reasons why men are not attracted to you

Believe it or not, there are some behaviors of women that can be one of the reasons why a man can stop loving a woman. Does it sound unreal?! Although there are many opinions that women are much more likely to stop loving their partner whom they had been irretrievably in love with, the men point out the disadvantages and negative points of the partner which may be too much to handle for them and following that they can stop loving their partner. Or this can even go as far as making men run away from them. Here are the reasons why men are not attracted to you!

Whiners

Whiners

The negative vibe is too much for guys to handle. Have you ever thought about how they don’t even care where they are sleeping? Caring too much about anything and nagging constantly is a huge turn off for guys. They want to be with someone who plays it cool. Someone who doesn’t cry over spilt milk. Someone with whom they can set up a tent and camp!

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Self-centered

Whatever that happens in your life, you care only about you and whatever decision you want to make, you make sure it is good for you and you do not even think twice or even ask the other person whether they are fine with it or not! If they want to do something and that requires your sacrifice, you won’t go with because you feel like there is no need for you to make sacrifices but you do expect him to sacrifice for you in times of need!

Self-centered

Poor hygiene

We could say that this option is a turnoff for both genders! No one likes to kiss someone who stinks! It’s better to have chewing gums and mints with you everywhere. The hygiene of your mouth and your teeth is crazily important! You’ll never know when that kiss might come, so get ready for it!

Poor hygiene

Ex talk

Of course, you can mention about your past relationships but don’t exaggerate. Did you start telling the stories about your ex and you can’t stop? Are you talking about your fabulous holidays you had last summer? Stop it! Are you still in the past or you want to start a new stage in your life? Your new date will be fed up with such stories! One more tip - under no circumstances should you mention about the se* life with your ex. That will just add fuel to the fire.

Ex talk

Criticizing everything

Your man wouldn’t want to feel inferior to you. Even if you feel like you can handle things on your own, you need to let them do things for you every now and then. They need to feel like you need them, rather than you are better off without them. Your man needs to feel like he’s the masculine one in the relationship. So next time you want to open a jar of pickles, ask your guy to do that for you.

Criticizing everything

Looking cheap

This is the only option that guys like the natural version! Don’t use too much hair product on your hair. They like to see your hair loose. However, they do like soft, silky hair, so if you don’t have that option, you need to use some conditioners. Oh, and don’t forget how they mostly will go crazy for long hair! Silky, long, loose hair is all you need!

Looking cheap

ONLY listening

Probably everyone after the fight must go for a moment to another place and calm the emotions a little. But your quiet days cannot last too long. Silence is considered a punishment, and if it takes too long, it can mean rejecting a partner and even maltreating him mentally. Besides, only with a sincere and calm conversation, you will come to an agreement, not living next to each other in silence.

ONLY listening

Phone addicts

Being with someone who is moody could be a new experience. It could also result in a murder. Girls are allowed to have that mood swing once every month but more than that would be just way too much to handle. And as lazy as guys are, they will just stop caring and act reluctantly! Not on the bipolar level, but this could be a real deal breaker.

Phone addicts

No smile

The face is the first thing that people see and without a doubt, it is important in the first impressions, like the attitude once you talk to that person. According to different studies, a woman will be more attractive when she smiles more because everyone likes to have a good time with their partners. A boy can be caught by the smile that a woman gives him and without a doubt, they love talking to women who seem to be open-minded and more accessible to a good conversation and to interact with everyone around them.

No smile

Looking for reasons to be irritated

Being with someone who is moody could be a new experience. It could also result in a murder. Girls are allowed to have that mood swing once every month but more than that would be just way too much to handle. And as lazy as guys are, they will just stop caring and act reluctantly! Not on the bipolar level, but this could be a real deal breaker.

Looking for reasons to be irritated

Be fake

People who are living a lie do so because they don’t feel it’s safe to reveal who they really are. They are most probably scared of the disapproval they might get from their family and friends. Or, they may have been bullied as a child. In other cases, avoiding an authentic life can be used to hide mental illness or self-hate. DO NOT BE FAKE!

Be fake

Talk loud

If you have a low tone of voice and you feel intimidated on more than one occasion because of it, we recommend that you should stop thinking so badly. The men love the women with this type of voices, while it brings the feeling of calmness and security to them. Besides that, women with such voice are often magnificent singers. Talking through whispers to your partner's ear is something that you should do in the bedroom, no other places.

Talk loud

Hitting others while laughing

Knowing what the other person is thinking is impossible, since reading the mind is not a gift that we have all ordinary beings, only in movies you could have it. So that's why body language has been studied for many years, by those scientists who found this type of behavior in people in different situations. Men usually do not express their feelings in the same way that girls do, so it is easier to interpret what they mean by any movement. Hitting other though, that is a no-no!

Hitting others while laughing

Liars

Researchers say that when we are trying to figure out a lie, we need to understand how the person normally acts and then pay attention to their facial expressions, body language, and speech patterns. A relationship is something that does not let you go this way meaning you two need to pretty honest with one another and being liars is something that destroys the whole relationship.

Liars

Trust issue

If this basic factor is in your relationship then you can relax and not worry about any betrayals or deceits. You don't hide any secrets, you can tell the truth without fear of being misunderstood or ridiculed. And you also cherish your own privacy making sure that any personal issues don't escape your relationship. If there's no trust then there's no serious relationship.

Trust issue

Drama queen

Whatever you do, do not make a mountain out of a molehill. We are warning you, DON’T! That is one thing that will make the guy run as fast as he can! Girls do have this special power to exaggerate whatever that is happening and then start over thinking. In the end, those poor guys will end up being the ones to blame for something they have no idea about!

Drama queen

Trash talk

Men find it unattractive when their girls use F-word in every F-ing sentence. Cut that out! They might find someone with that patronizing attitude attractive at times but for sure they don’t want to have that person as their girl! Plus, come on, that attitude doesn’t show how sophisticated you are!

Trash talk

Paying too much attention to what others think

The opinion of others is very important to many women, although these people are not necessarily right. Following the advice of the best friend can cost you dearly. Ladies sometimes stop reacting or answering a message only because they want to see what their friend thinks they should say or do! That is like being in a relationship with more than one person since everything is supervised by someone else too! Many men are annoyed when third parties play a role in the relationship. It's better to listen to your own mind.

Paying too much attention to what others think

Egocentric

A person who focuses only on himself will never be able to build a happy relationship. The men sometimes complain about their partners, because they only pay attention to their own well-being and forget about the men. When a woman begins to focus only on her own needs, men lose interest in her. You need to let him know that he is one of the most important parts of your life. That is what all men need to feel like and to be fair ladies also want to feel the same way, isn’t it so?!

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