Signs that he is secretly in love with you!
We know that most people always look for a partner that is romantic most of the time so that in this way, they fell in love every day. However, each person is a whole new world, and not all will express their romanticism in the same way as others. Some may be timider or focused on details that do not stand out very much, however, this does not mean they want less for their partners, but the opposite. You should pay attention to his behavior, instead of complaining that he does not give you love, and observe some tell-tale signs... Do not miss them!
He always smiles
We genuinely smile to people only if we like them so if he often does it then he treats you as a person who has a significant place in his heart. That's why whatever you do together, he does it eagerly and you can see a smile on his face most often than a frown or a grumpy grimace. He tries to be optimistic instead of complaining all the time as he knows that this attracts people.
He is always listening
If he didn't care about you then he wouldn't listen to you at all, or he would just pretend to listen. If he is in love then if you ask him about something connected with your conversation later then he will know what it was about as he was actively listening and is always interested in whatever you are going to say. This is definitely a good sign! Good luck!
He always remembers
He remembers many unimportant facts from the past that you told him once and he obviously remembers about your birthday and when you started dating. Well, you can be always surprised by what he still bears in his mind. He treats your relationship seriously so every new thing you do together and all mutual memories are something that he wants to cherish.
He cares about your opinion
Your opinions and points of view always matter to him. So when you make some decisions then he always takes into account what you expect and what you are not willing to accept. That's why you can be sure that he will never do anything against you or without you knowing about it. He proves this way that he treats you really seriously. This is just perfect!
Your happiness is his happiness
When you are planning some activities during your spare time, he doesn't always suggest things that he feels like doing. Mostly, he cares about your preferences so that you could enjoy spending time together! You can even go to the cinema to watch some romantic comedy or a soap opera at home as long as you are happy. As your happiness equals his happiness!
Your sadness is his sadness
And when you are depressed and you don't want to do anything but lie in bed, he also feels this sorrow but still, he wants to make you feel comfortable. when you are in pain, his heart also feels the same. When you suffer then he also suffers and this is all because of empathy and compassion that he has towards you. You can really count on such a man!
He tries to make you laugh
When you are not in a good mood, then he will do his best to make you smile. He will crack some jokes, provide you with some funny comedies or just remind you of some embarrassing, crazy memories that you have. He would do everything to see your smile again. He could even imitate a clown if it would mean one your smile. Wow, this is a real love!
He stays with you for a long time
Even if he has important appointments, a business trip or he planned to meet his friends, he will appear to linger with you for a longer time then he should. Well, any separations, even for a short time, are painful for him as he loves your company the most. That's why wants to stay with you for as much time as he can. This is so romantic! Just fabulous!
He wants to know you
If he loves you, he cares about you and if he cares about you, he wants to know everything that is concerning YOU! He will probably learn some stuff from your friends but mostly he will eagerly ask about your background, family, passions, jobs. Well, about anything! Even small details from your life matter. If someone feels love then something like this is just obvious!
He takes some time to meet you
Well, longing is sometimes a good thing. And it often shows people how much they love each other. So if he happens to take some time to meet you, it's not because he doesn't want to keep in touch. He wants to make sure that you love him the same way he does. So when there is any separation then a couple can realize what they really feel and how they are attached to each other.
He treats you better
There is a difference when it comes to treatment in case of a friend or a partner. If he is in love, then he is more worried, concerned and everything that is connected with you is of top priority for him. When you enter a relationship, he will treat you like a princess and will try to provide you with everything you want. Also, you will be able to feel safe and appreciated. Just perfect!
He sees no other girls
There are a lot of girls around him but he doesn't seem to see them at all. You know that you are not an ideal woman but he accepts you the way you are and he doesn't want any other better version of you. Well, it's just a sign that he is in love and that you are that significant person who won his heart. You can be jealous but there's no point as if he truly loves you then he won't meet another girl.
You are the first he contacts
If anything important is happening in his life then you are the first person whom he contacts. If it really happens, then you can be sure that you are among his priorities and that no other person is as equally important as you are to him. Now, you need to think if it's the same if your case. If something happens, e.g. you hear some news, then who comes to your mind first?
He uses WE
Always pay attention to the way he is forming the sentences. If he treats you seriously then he will consult every important decision with you taking into account your preferences and point of view so most of the sentences will begin with the word WE. This way it means he is not egoistic and that now he thinks in a different way than before. now there is no I, now there is WE.
He involves you in plans
If he mostly talks about himself, his plans, goals and if there is no YOU in them then this is not a good sign... But if you are included in his plans and he eagerly talks about your future family, your children, your house then it just means he wants to spend the future with you! He can imagine starting a family with such a woman as you! And actually, he can't wait!
He is alluring you
He wants to look attractive to you and he wants to allure you this way! He wants to be a passionate seducer who can turn you on at any moment. That's why you can notice how much effort he puts in taking care of his appearance, his clothes and generally the way he wants to look when he is with you. Yes, all the effort is because of YOU! Just awesome!
He talks a lot
He loves to talk with you as he always knows you listen to him intently, so all his efforts are not worthless. He also talks a lot because he loves the way you react, your advice, your funny jokes and he also loves the way you look at him when he tells you something. When you talk together there is that magic and special chemistry in the air that he literally adores!
He talks about the special dates you had
Yes, he remembers all the special dates you've had since you've started dating! So he often reminds you how you were kissing in the rain and how you were threatened in a tent at night when you heard something or how funny it was sometimes when you were not sober. You have a lot of memories and he wants to cherish them all! Isn't it beautiful?
You are never annoying to him
If he truly loves you, you are never a burden or an annoying person for him. You sometimes argue, tease, laugh or fight with pillows but he cannot say that you irritate him and really mean it. He knows that women can sometimes have mood swings and he can manage this. You are his beautiful princess without whom he cannot imagine his life.