The reasons why guys ignore us!
Let’s face it, there are not as many reasons for guys to go missing than it is for the ladies. They are the ones that wear their heart on their sleeves and confess their love to the lady they have feeling for. No matter how first-world and open-minded we are, at the end of the day, there are things that we believe are meant to be that way and one of these things is guys being the more expressive ones at first. Now, see how far it can go for them to decide that they want to ignore you! Here are some of the reasons why!
He is losing interest
If he is losing interest and doesn't want to see you any more than he will definitely ignore you! Well, a decent man would just tell you the truth so that you wouldn't plan or expect anything, however, let's be honest, not all guys have enough courage to stand in front of you saying that you are not that right person to hang around with them. So sad!
You got it wrong
Girls are more emotional and when they are looking for love and often become extremely desperate, they also happen to misread some signs that other men are sending. So if they see a man who is smiling at them and chat a little bit with them, they already have expectations and hope that this could be transformed into a relationship. Whereas for men, it's often just a casual acquaintance.
He is more easygoing in love
Again, he may take his time and not feel pressure but what about you? Aren't you too pushy and intrusive? Maybe you want a boyfriend so badly that you can't interpret the signs that others are sending? A good advice is to take it easy and not control him too much because if you are too desperate, you can easily scare him off and then you won't see him in your life anymore.
He doesn’t like you
The truth can be really painful but you need to take into account the fact that the man whom you met a couple of days may not feel the same what you feel. You may be interested in pursuing your relationship but he may have already forgotten about you. Ok, he was polite and kind when you met but you don't know what was actually in his head then...
He has something more exciting to do
You can't think that since you met a few times, now you are constantly in his head. Of course, there is a chance for that but he would rather contact you as soon as possible if he wanted to get to know you better. So if he is silent and ignores you then he probably has other exciting things or... people in his head. You need to face the truth and move on with your life!
He has confessed his love for you and now is taking a step backward
What if he has already admitted what he really feels? Now you probably expect the next move, the next stage and what you are given in return? His silence. This is a very confusing situation when you actually have no idea what he wants from you. If you can't stand this situation and need to know why he is taking a step backward then there is no better way than ask him about it openly the moment you have contact with him.
Your expectations are wrong
What you dream about, what you plan and expect can be something even less real than a fairy tale. So don't expect too much if you already know that this won't work. An example? You might meet a charming guy and you fall in love with him at first sight but then it turns out that he is married! You cannot expect then that he will leave his loving partner because this is simply what you know...
He is cheating on someone with you
If you are dating a man who has a girlfriend then you indeed skate on the thin ice! First of all, it's never worth engaging in such a relationship because you already know what he is like (he is capable of cheating after all!). Secondly, at any moment of your affair, it may turn out that he becomes aware how much he loves his partner and chooses to stay with her or simply she gets to know the truth and your contact will be broken...
It is a one way street
It may turn out that there is no chance that you both fall in love with each other. You may want to get to know him, be close and do your best to make him happy offering a lot of favors and gifts but in return, he won't move even an inch. He will stay in his old life and will never prepare a space in it for you. It often happens so don't be surprised if he ignores you.
He just doesn’t care enough
If he often doesn't respond to your messages and if he rarely calls you then it doesn't have to mean that he is not in love. Well, he may want to be in a relationship with you but not contacting you is a way that he got used to. The reason may be simple - he prefers face-to-face contacts so until he meets you on a date you won't hear from him in any way. Isn't it a little bit reassuring?
He is genuinely busy
Try to be more understanding and don't always panic when he is not responding for a half of a day. He may have lots of work and then other obligations and then some unexpected matters and then he may be too tired. If you know his lifestyle and his job then you can just imagine or try to imagine how much spare time he may have. So texting you can be something he wishes to do but he has no time at all...
He is in love with someone else
This is the reason that you probably don't want to hear but the sooner you realize the truth the better for you. You might spend a lot of time together and you really thought that he could be the one and now he ignores you. Why? It's possible that he is in love with some other girl and he is totally concentrated on her. Now you don't play a vital role in his life anymore. Sad!
He was never into you
It's also possible that he was never interested in you. Maybe you were his rebound relationship or just he liked you until he really got to know you. Regardless of the reason, if you are sure that he is not busy, tired or lost your phone number then it's quite obvious that he just doesn't want to keep in touch and now he is going to ignore you. Let's face the truth!
He has priorities and you are not one
Of course, he has priorities but if you are not among them then you can't expect that he will be willing to invite you to his life! Maybe he wants to concentrate on his job and not engage in any serious relationship, or he has a crush on another girlfriend and she is in his mind instead of you. it's better not to concentrate on such a man who doesn't care about you and who is not able to respond to just one message.
You are easy
If you text him all the time, call him even late at night and constantly invite him to the dates (even to your flat) then he may start to think about you as an easy girl who just wants to have a boyfriend at any cost and with utmost desperation. Well, this is not attractive! So if you behave like this, you cannot expect that he will want to keep in touch. Don't put him off!
He thinks you don't expect too much
Well, your expectations can be going in totally opposite ways. You may think that this is it and you are already prepared to engage in a relationship, whereas he doesn't want to scare you off so he makes sure that his messages don't look desperate and too pushy. So as a consequence, he ignores you and you are thinking about him all the time... Sad reality!
He is scared of love
It may also turn out that he is not ready for the next stage in your relationship and this way he is taking backward steps and ignores you all the time... Well, maybe he was once hurt by another woman or he just has a difficult background, e.g. his parents got divorced. Now he is simply scared of love and doesn't know how to maintain a successful relationship.
He is selfish
Well, if you met that selfish type of man then you can't expect him to send you messages in which he shows his care or interest. As he is an egoist, he is mostly concerned about his own matters and troubles. That's why he happens to forget about your existence. Not sending messages or not responding don't have to be that painful if you compare it to the actual life with such a man...
He knows that you like him so he does not want to lead you on
As he is aware of your feelings and also knows that he is not into you, he doesn't want you to expect too much from him. That's why, by ignoring you, he wants to let you know that you'd better find another guy to fall in love with as unfortunately, he cannot promise you anything. Well, it would be better if he told you the truth face to face... Don't you think so?
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