Reasons why you are not over him!
We all need our time to get over the relationship we were in before. Some might need a longer time, some will get over it within a week. For some, the relationship was over even before they officially broke up. But we all do have our time of grief. After spending so much time with someone, the person will become a huge part of your life and it is not easy to say that you are over him/her. In this article, we are going to go in depth about the reason why you think you are not over him still.
He totally understood you
Sometimes you do not have to say anything, he understands everything on your own. A man who loves a woman will notice any change in her mental state by the change in her expressions or in her face, as well as the tone of her voice. This is an indication that you have achieved a great connection, and that almost nothing is opposed to him to understand you. That special being does not have to be a telepath, but there is a unique bond that you should notice.
He made you laugh until you cried
Of course, this comes without saying when you date someone who is funny and if the guy is the one who is into you then that is a blast. You are going to have a perfect day no matter how it was at work or what kind of an argument you had with your friends. The thing about this guys is that they act like catalysts. You know that no matter what you went through, at the end of the day spending time with this guy makes things betters and brings a smile to your face.
You had a great intimacy together
Se* is the word for most of us - the key to smiling face satisfaction. We like it, we talk and read about it as often as we use the same close-up. It has many positives for physical and mental health, it perfectly builds bonds between partners. It is definitely something more than just a natural act of wild desire. It seems to us that we know about it as much as we will try ourselves, or what we will find out already outside the bed competition.
He was kind and caring
Considering the fact that we live in a society that people are constantly looking for their place on earth, we should not be surprised that everyone would like to have a well-organized and stable life. Unfortunately, often these attempts end in disappointment or tears that we would rather avoid. At a certain age, we care about stability and want to have a partner next to us that will help us go through life. However, it is difficult to check if the person you meet with thinks seriously about us.
He kept you grounded when your life was cluttered
Having a purpose in life is very important, it drives us, motivates and gives the meaning of being. Therefore, many people set themselves to have a big goal and strive for it with all their strength. That's why being in a relationship is worth looking for someone who will never restrict or inhibit you. A man who helps you achieve the goal will show how much he cares about you. If he additionally focuses all of his attention on your good, it means that he will want to formalize your relationship in a while.
You had similar values in life
If you need to have a successful relationship, you need to be best friends first before partners. Your partner needs to be someone who supports you just like a friend and when that romantic part of the relationship is put aside, she needs to be someone that you know you can lean on when things do not go the way you have planned. There is nothing better than being best friends with your partner. And girls like that are rare to find so keep her.
He inspired you to become a better person
This is one of the best things that can happen in idol relationships. It shows that the man is paying attention to what his girlfriend is doing, appreciates it and wants to keep up her pace. And saying ‘You inspire me’ to the beloved one does not approve of the man's weakness or imperfection, but claiming that her actions inspire him, shows that he also want to be a better man for her. Even better is the consequence which is inspiring one another to be a better version of themselves!
He was someone you could count on
We have already mentioned this so many times. Whenever you talk to someone that has been in a serious relationship for a long time, the first thing they always tell you is that marriage needs compromise. It takes two to tango. If you think of whatever you are doing for your partner as sacrifices then that is not a right relationship. A relationship is given and take and compromise in vital.
His smile ….
Does he smile gently while you talk? Maybe he's trying to make you laugh. This is a sign that he is trying to build some kind of connection with you. When he smiles, do you smile back? If a boy responds to your jokes, even when they are not funny, it means that he is in tune with you. He could also be more animated, talkative and expressive. Research has found that men will try to suppress their negative emotions, such as frowning when they think that an attractive girl is looking at them.
He appreciated you for who you were
They always say, someday you will find someone who will love you for your flaws. Aren’t we are waiting for that one day to come? Loving your flaws may not be exactly what might happen but more like accepting your flaws and love you just the way you are. Now, that is more like it! No one is perfect. Your imperfections define perfection and we are not talking only beauty wise. To have a healthy relationship, acceptance is a necessity.
Everything was fun with him
It only suffices if you go and listen to what female celebrities' idol man is like. They always mention the sense of humor! Unquestionably, one thing that makes every single girl fall for the boy is how funny he is. Someone that she can goof around with. Have their own inside jokes. Everyone needs to laugh every now and then. It is better to be with someone with whom you can laugh your worries away.
You could be comfortable with him
Trust is the pillar of every relationship. You cannot build a healthy relationship with fear and suspicion. You don’t want to be in a relationship that you need to prove everything to your significant other and to explain yourself all the time. You should know that he trusts you in order to be able to trust him back. If he has all the qualities here, then you are a lucky girl!
He was laughing with you at himself
No matter how independent your lady is, every now and then, she wants to put the weight off her shower and lean on you. Someone who is partner/husband material for ladies is a guy that she can depend on. She doesn’t want to play the role of the mom in the relationship. She also needs someone to take care of her. A relationship is a two-way road. You know you are going the right way when your girls ask for your help even with the tiniest thing.
He was passionate
He's someone who often repeats that he loves you and that you are beautiful. And he says it also in the morning when you have not yet finished your hair, and after the argument, when you have not the time to cool down. He'll never tell you: you'd look better in dark hair. Or: you only lose weight of 5 kilos and it will be great. For him, you are great here and now. The way you are. With stretch marks and suckers. We love such guys!
He was family centered
Even the best relationships go through problems, and that is a fact that nobody can argue with. For that reason, if a man is really in love, he will not come down easily and will try to give the necessary fuss to keep that love alive. He will strive to withstand the coldest winters and the heaviest spring rains to be by your side and stay with you no matter what happens. A man in love feels very lucky to have you in his life, and that lets him know that losing you is the last thing he would want.
He was not afraid of being vulnerable
Fighting or being vulnerable is not always a sign that the relationship is going through a bad time. In fact, if a man really loves you and is truly involved in the relationship, he will take the time to fight, debate, and find solutions to what might happen. The occasional arguments are a clear symptom that he wants things to work like silk; he wants to find that middle ground where you can both be happy. In relationships with no fights, it just means there is nothing that is worth fighting for!
He loved new experiences
You could say that, at this point, if a man decides to sacrifice what he most appreciates or wants for your happiness, it is clear that he is deeply in love. For a man, avoid having a good time with his friends or not going to what he had organized in advance and really wanted something that he knows will make you happy is a gesture that denotes a great love for you, and is willing to always put you first, because there is nothing more important than you in his life.
He was there when you needed him
It may seem illogical, but many couples break up each year because of each other's egos and the difficulty of recognizing how wrong one of the two has been. When a man truly loves a woman, everything she does will feel like his own achievements. It's almost like the pride a mother feels when her child does something good or new for the first time. In the same way, a man who feels a great love for his partner will not try to compete with her at all, but will feel that he has won equally when she does!
He was handsome
This is such a confidence booster. Men love to be told that they look nice. Imagine every day in the morning before work someone reminds you how handsome you look! It makes you feel unstoppable for the rest of the day. It refreshes your confidence when you know that there is someone that loves and appreciates every inch of you. Maybe if you follow the same path, the new one even becomes better than the old one!
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