Untold rules for text flirting
Flirting is a form of art. The art of seduction! And to succeed in that, you need to know how to do it so that it wouldn’t be too much and you wouldn’t give false signals. Most women like to be the ones that the first move is done on them. They mostly do not like to be the one who takes the first step so for men to know how to flirt is crucial. Some guys might just say that women hate it whenever they attempted to flirt. The problem is that, men do not know how to flirt and sometimes they do it in a way that comes out as being too full of themselves and sometimes they do not even notice that they are disrespecting the lady and crossing the line by whatever they say! Here is a set of untold rules for text flirting!
No drunk text
Texting the person that you are dating and someone you want to hit on is two very different things. You might be able to drunk text the person that you are already dating because dating is all about being comfortable with one another, right?! However, when it turns into you hitting on someone, drunk texting that person is the worst thing that you can ever do! It demonstrates irresponsibility especially if the lady you have in mind is someone super independent.
Initiate but know when
Girls always want to be the ones that receive the message from the guy so the chances of them initiating the text when they are not in a relationship with you are something that is very unlikely to happen! They might text you first or even send you so many messages when in an actual relationship but before that, you need to be the one. The only thing you need to be aware of is not to send too many text message and not initiating all the time! Leave her for a day or two and give her the space to miss you.
No texting when upset
Remember that you are trying to make the girl like you so do not think about texting her with all your sad thoughts and whenever you are hopeless in life. For now, find someone else to help you with this. She will be there to comfort you later in the future but that is only if you are in a relationship. They mostly run away when going with them to the most depressing talks.
Keep it short and sweet
SHORT! Do not send her a love letter confessing your love. As sweet as this might sound to the girls reading this now, I want you to think about receiving a confession letter from a guy you don't even know and dare to tell me it doesn’t make you feel like you want to run for the hills. Maybe to a girl who has known you for quite a while, this is sweet and she appreciates it but not someone you have just started working on!
I want all boys and girls to read this one item at least 4 times so that it is engraved in your brain! DO NOT TEXT MORE THAN ONCE! What does that mean!? When you text the person and that person does not actually answer you, it is time for you to give them some space and make yourself occupied with something else because texting them again without receiving anything is WRONG! Wait for her to give you a response.
Not sure how many ladies are obsessed with grammatical mistakes or even spelling ones like the way I am even if I do not follow them perfectly but what you have got to know is that it is way better to stay on the safe side and re-read your message 2-3 times to make sure what you are sending to that person is what you really want to tell them and also you are making a correct impression on them!
I can just copy and paste everything I said in the previous paragraph to let you know how much of vital importance is the punctuation and grammar. Why don’t I give you an example to let you know how the punctuation can change the meaning of your sentences and can change the mood of the girl. The example is given by ‘Pickupline.net’ "After tonight, I guarantee you'll never forget the difference between "lie" and "lay."
Girls and even boys sometimes just have it all in their mind and overthink things so much that they go crazy. They have a fight with the person in their mind without him being there and that is why at the end of the day, when he comes home, he has no idea why you are being so grumpy. Remember that communicate help solve so many of your problems so go with that instead of the passive aggressive attitude!
No big decisions through text
Whether it is breaking up or making up, don’t do it over the phone! Not even a text! They deserve better than that! Man up and talk to them face to face! "If you're in a long-term relationship, your partner deserves the respect of being broken up with face to face," O'Malley says. And don’t forget to do it in private. The last thing you want to do now is to worsen the situation! "you're not just hurting them, you're humiliating them," O'Malley says.
Se*ting is the phenomenon of sending your racy photos and videos to other people. Young people most often use cell phones for this purpose, sending materials of this type using MMS or mobile applications. Se*ting is becoming more and more popular among young people and they start using it at a very early stage of acquaintance. After a few meetings or exchanging text messages, teenagers are ready to send their n*de photo to the friend. The situation becomes dangerous especially when the receiver starts sharing the picture with other people for whatever reason!
Knowing when not to text
It is important to know where you are standing the life of the person you are texting to and also how close you are to one another because that is what helps you find out how far you can go when it comes to texting. If you have just started talking to them and you are not sure if the person has the same feelings towards you or not, try to find out about their schedule and do not text them when they are super busy.
Ask them to put their phone down
No-phone zone or in fact, no technology zone! Make time for only the two of you with no electronic devices in between! Wendy Walsh says: "If you haven't put your family and your relationship on a technology diet yet, this is the year to do it. Nothing is killing communication faster right now than guys starting at their iPhones while girls are trying to talk to them at the dinner table, or vice versa. Otherwise, you won't give each other your full attention, and it's easy to become annoyed or feel disconnected."
Tell her how much you enjoy spending time with her
Sophie Keller says "If you are fully and completely with no armour, you will magnetize and attract the perfect person for you because light attracts the light." Steve Harvey says: "We men will do anything humanly possible to impress you. You’re the driving force behind why we wake up every day. We drive fancy cars because of women. We dress nice, put on cologne, get haircuts and try to look all shiny and new for you. We do all of this because the more our game is stepped up, the more of you we get." Let your partner know how much you enjoy spending time with them!
Not every time she texts she can answer your call
DO NOT CALL! Or at least when you are planning on calling her, make sure she is there available and can answer you! Text her asking if she is fine with you calling her. If she can talk comfortably because this is going to turn into one of the most awkward conversations you have ever had if it goes with no heads up.
Be aware! This one can be just like the rest of the things and you might think that we have talked about it so many times but believe us when we say this is one of the most important things. You need to make sure that you are aware of her position and her surrounding because that card can play against you and can destroy something that had a tiny little chance of existence!
Don’t text something you cannot own it
When texting, there are times when you are having serious conversations and then you utter something that the person counts so much on but then you do not remember the next day for whatever reason and that becomes a huge issue you cannot control the next day. Or even saying something that the next day you forget so that becomes a lie. Try to make the serious conversions in person.
Who would have thought there would be a day dedicated only to emojis! But there is one and that is the 17th of July! We use these smiley faces on our day to day life and we have got to the point now that if we receive a message with no emoji, we are offended! That is a huge impact, right!? The emojis have right now become one of the easy ways to express what we want to say the best way possible so don’t forget to use them!
No junk text
They are often scammers who are especially impersonating young people to extort such photos. The problem of se*ting among young people is becoming more and more common. Recent studies, commissioned by the Nobody's Children Foundation, The Empowering Children Foundation, show that the problem of se*ting concerns 11% of girls and boys aged 15-18. The sending of photos and videos presenting partial or total n*dity was taken into account. Much more, as many as 34% of respondents admitted that they happened to receive this type of material from other people.
Go for the real deal
If you find someone with whom you can connect through a text message and both understand one another’s online lingo, that is the time for you to go ahead and get more of this person. Get to know them in person and move this to the next level. That is when you can be completely honest about your feelings through text!