This is what men notice first about women, according to psychology
You may probably sometimes wonder what men think when they notice you in the street? You’ve often heard all those superstitions concerning men first looking at your butt and breasts. Well, according to the scientists, men pay attention to totally other things and those things don’t even have to concern your body. If you want to read men’s minds and get to know their first thoughts when you see each other, then continue reading! You may be quite surprised that men are not what a lot of women take for granted!
70% of men seem to notice a woman’s eyes first. He looks at you in the street and you may think that he has already evaluated your body and compared you to other thin girls but it's not true! He will first look into your eyes. Whether you have brown, green or blue eyes, men have totally different preferences and actually, the color of them is not really that important. Also, your eye makeup is not crucial because they are not even familiar with eyeliners or mascaras. What they will see first is that spark and happiness you show through your eyes.
Eyes are a reflection of your mind and mostly they show if you are happy, sad, nervous or aroused... Also, the truth is that eyes generally tell us a lot about our personality! He may see that you're shy, reserved or very spontaneous and cheerful. Some things cannot be hidden and some guy may read your face like a book. If you are in a bad mood and very unhappy but there is a chance you will meet HIM in a while then you can try out sunglasses. they can help a little bit.
Researchers have also discovered what kind of eye makeup men prefer when they see women. It turns out that nude shadows, light eyeliner and just a pinch of mascara are enough what you need to turn on guys. You don't need false lashes or eyeshadow in rainbow colors. Men prefer everything to be as simple as possible. And they hate those panda girls who have a few thick layers of makeup on their faces. They often wonder who they want to imitate...
Well, when it comes to makeup there may be various opinions on them. You may not know how much you should put on your face to be attractive for him and not to exaggerate. The best thing you can do is to find natural, subtler cosmetics that will only highlight your beauty and won't make you look like a drama queen or a provocative woman. Delicate, innocent, feminine - this is how most men want to see you. How is your everyday makeup? Don't you sometimes exaggerate with putting too much?
Lovely shoes can make your legs longer and improve your general look - men will notice that! You don't necessarily have to buy high heels that you can barely walk in. There are many comfortable, not so high shoes that are still so cute that men will definitely pay attention to them. And if the guy is quite short then it's even better when you shoes flat shoes or sneakers. The crucial thing is to have a clean and comfortable footwear, not the most extravagant one.
Well, this is what Hollywood often promotes. Celebrities with big breasts, face without wrinkles, even when they are 50, and lots of other surgeries that make them look younger but not necessarily more attractive. Well, surgeries simply take away your natural beauty and you look more like a doll. The truth is that the majority of men don’t want to date a woman who looks simply fake. They want to have a natural, real woman and this is what turns them on.
They quickly notice if something stands out and looks fake. Well, even if they don't care about details, long, acrylic nails, fake eyelashes, and fake tans draw attention and they are not attractive! Men spend lots of money on those things and men don't even understand their concept. It's really more useful to invest in good quality shoes or natural beauty products instead of making your body look so artificial. Natural beauty always wins and makes women irresistible!
Men notice women’s attitudes quite quickly. A kind, friendly and playful woman always gets the bonus! It just tells them that they couldn't be bored or depressed with you. People subconsciously choose those who emit cheerful, optimistic energy. they make us feel better, more comfortable, cozier. We forget about our problems, duties and everyday stress. Who wouldn't like to meet such a positive person on a regular basis? Being optimistic really pays off.
Unfortunately, not everyone has such a nature. Some people seem to have inborn grumpiness and tend to complain about anything they see. Even if you want to impress a guy and try to hide your negative emotions, men will see them in your eyes, mimics and the way you behave around them. So instead of trying to hide the gloomy side of you, start changing your perspective and smile more. Smile even at strangers, that can only give you more opportunities to make friends.
Clear skin is generally found as attractive as it indicates great health, good genes and being on a good diet. Well, you can still mislead him by perfect makeup that hides all your imperfections, women know those tricks! Just make sure you don't put too much foundation and skin powder, otherwise, you will look so fake that he won't find you attractive at all. It's better to invest in healthy products and some supplements for a clear skin, not cosmetics.
Long, healthy and shiny hair can't go unnoticed. A good condition of your hair is a sign of youth and good health! They say that blonde girls are more attractive to men but this is so untrue! Women of all hair colors have the same chance. Men have different preferences, some of them prefer blondes because they look more delicate, innocent, simply like angles. However, others will always search for brunette girls claiming that they look more mysterious.
Redheads also have their own chance because they look seductive and wild! He may pay attention to the way you style your hair and if they look unkempt and greasy then it definitely doesn't look attractive. So instead of looking for some new dye to look different with new color, invest in moisturizing shampoos and conditioners and take a good care of your hair. Such an attitude will pay off and he won't take his eyes off your shiny, healthy-looking hair.
A smiling woman is a signal that men don’t have to hesitate and can start flirtation! A smiling woman also means good nature, kindness, and sense of humor - who wouldn’t like to date such a person? A smiling woman simply works like a magnet drawing attention to her optimistic nature. Laughter is contagious so people around you can only feel better! Don't say you are too shy to smile at that guy whom you barely know! You don't need to say anything but smiling will work as an invitation.
Some girls say that they rarely smile because of their teeth. They are crooked or not so white. Well, this is not a good excuse, ladies! Commercials have been promoting a perfect smile without any flaws but this is just a commercial, it was probably photoshopped for many hours! And most men don't have strict criteria allowing them to date only girls who look like models. They are also just normal guys with their own imperfections so they will understand your own too.
Long legs are often considered as a sign of good genetics. In the case of tall guys, a woman with slim, long legs may be very tempting. Long legs are not a necessity when it comes to searching for a girlfriend but a woman who is walking the street in a mini skirt and high heels always draws attention. However, when the guy is rather short, he will feel better with a woman who is short too. Generally, legs don't have to be that long but it's more attractive when they are rather thinner.
You don't have to be a superthin model, men simply pay attention to women with a healthy weight. Most of them will be rather reluctant to date a heavily overweight woman who cannot even walk without stopping every 5 minutes. But they also don't have a skinny partner who looks more like a skeleton but still, she counts calories and even keep an eye on what you're eating! You can have feminine curves and wider hips and you don't need to have a flat belly. It's ok, it's something normal and attractive.
Men tend to pick their partners via smell and your pheromones, not your perfume are crucial. However, it doesn't mean that you should throw away your deodorant, perfumes and body lotions and offer him your natural body smell. No, no, it's not what we meant. All those cosmetics are ok but used in moderation. Don't spray your whole body with floral fragrance to attract his attention as he will rather run away... Let your pheromones work their way too. You'll see what happens!
Men like women who dress in a "classy" way. This means that you should limit the amount of skin you show. Let his imagination work at highest speed and don't show him all your assets straightaway. Dress like a real lady. If your shirt is too revealing then choose a longer skirt and the other way round. Show him only a fragment of your attributes and let him imagine how you could look in that se*y lingerie because obviously, as a man he will have such thoughts.
Women who can be proud of their perky, shapely breast draw men’s attention more quickly. It may simply mean that such women are capable of feeding future children. As this asset has appeared at the end of the list, it just means that men don't pay so much attention to your breasts. And they definitely don't have to be that big! If you have complexes connected with the size of your breasts, you can always invest in push-up bras. But most of all, accept yourself the way you are and then people will accept you as well.