Questions that keep the spark alive in every relationship
Couples should do their best to keep the spark alive in their relationship, otherwise, it may fade away and finally die. There are numerous ways to bring back the magic chemistry and those butterflies that you experienced at the beginning of your relationship. Romantic, crazy, dirty questions can help you become more aroused and attached. This is a great idea not only when you want to calm down after an argument, practice this technique every day! You just need to learn a few playful questions!
What was your first impression when you saw me for the first time? Talking about the first moments of getting to know each other is always so exciting! Those moments are connected to the strong flow of different kinds of emotions and chemistry and whenever you look back on them, you become more aroused and simply happier. Mentioning your first impression can be also funny because what you thought about him during the first meeting was probably so different! It's good to share it!
Have you got any secrets and you’re too embarrassed to tell me? Not it's time for moments of honesty in your relationship. But this doesn't mean moments of tension and revealing the painful truth! You just want to know about some crazy, funny stories from his life that he has never told you for some reason. Encourage him to be more vulnerable and open up. This is a great chance to get to know him more, become closer and an opportunity to have fun if the story as he surely has some crazy things to say!
Do you tend to check me out while I walk away? If you ask this questions, he will probably start to tell you about your great body assets and that he cannot take his eyes off you. This is a great opportunity to build se*ual tension, pay some compliments and flirt! Then there should be an exchange and you are going to tell him what turns you on when you look at him when he's walking. It's really nothing embarrassing to check out your partner after all! Just a normal thing in every relationship.
How would you describe the feeling between us? If you really talk about the feeling between you two and concentrate mostly on gestures, now it's time to change it. After all, it's so nice to hear that your partner loves you and cannot imagine his life without you. Maybe he already has some plans for the future? Maybe he wanted to tell you something important but didn't know how to initiate such a conversation? That's why don't hesitate to ask him about emotions that are currently between you two.
If I let you choose clothes for the next date, what would it be? Let's trigger his imagination! Let him described in details what he would choose for you to wear on the next date. This way you can flirt and engage in foreplay and also, you get to know his preferences as to clothes, makeup, and accessories. You can probably expect some obvious things like dress, skirt or se*y blouse but maybe this time he will surprise you with other ideas that he finds very attractive in women.
What was your last dirty dream about? Everyone has dirty dreams from time to time. He may not remember all of them but there is probably something that has stuck in his mind. Don't let him find it too embarrassing to tell you! Even if the dream doesn't include you, it can still help you become more aroused. In return, if it's possible you can try to make that dream possible and fulfill his fantasies as it is said that dreams are often the embodiment of our hidden desires.
What’s the most ridiculous thing that can turn you on in a minute? You probably don't know all his secrets and especially things that influence his imagination. Let's see what fantasies he hides in his mind. It may turn out that the smell of your hair or your whisper are the biggest turns on, however, they may be definitely more ridiculous. Maybe there is some ingredient that triggers his excitement? Knowing this fact you could use it more often for cooking! That's why you should ask this question.
Imagine that I’m in a room with a very handsome guy, and I swear that nothing’s going on, would you believe my words? Every relationship needs some dose of jealousy. Believe it or not, it helps to grow relationships! Well, it doesn't mean that you should find a male friend and start flirting with him over text to show your partner you have fun! However, you can let him imagine the situations when he should be jealous of you. Let's see how he would react then.
Can you read my mind and guess what I’m thinking right now? If you know each other very well, it may not be so difficult for him to read your mind. Well, some people have emotions written on their faces! However, you may ask this question with a poker face and let him show you how well he knows you. It may be also quite funny when he will try to guess your thoughts and there is never too much fun a relationship! And every such a question is a great opportunity for that.
When have we had the most amazing moments in our bedroom? This will be probably one of the best questions he will answer with pleasure, just like every man! You can ask him this question wherever you want but one thing is for sure when he just thinks about the best moments of your intimate life, he will be turned on in seconds! And if you are currently in a shopping mall then well... you can still make use of changing rooms if you know what we mean.
What were you thinking about the last time we were making love? If you ask this question, he won't necessarily tell you the truth but it's still worth trying. He might think about his work or some comedy but will tell you instead that he was thinking just about you and the love that is between you. Well, don't bother this white lie, it's so nice to hear that he was 100% connected with you at that pleasurable moment and that nothing and no one else counts more in his life.
What’s the dirtiest thing a couple can do together? And again we come back to fantasies, desires and triggering his imagination. This time, you want to know how you could make your intimate life more passionate and wild. He may already have some suggestions but doesn't feel confident enough to open up about them. Let him speak up! Yes, his fantasies may be like those from adult movies but you can experiment a little bit more in your relationship.
What was your craziest thought that you’ve had recently? Let him tell you about his weird habits that you may not have noticed yet or ridiculous thought that often comes to his mind. You can just hope that it won't turn out you are dating a real madman! Well, everyone has their own whims and some insane thoughts from time to time and again, it may be just funny to get to know them. Maybe he is just crazy about something in his job and now has the chance to share this crazy thing with you.
Have you ever thought about buying a toy for adults? Maybe you already have such toys or other accessories but maybe you just didn't have an opportunity to talk about it? If you are excited about the idea and he is still more skeptical, you can watch some movies, like for example, 50 shades of Grey, and try to welcome new freshness and excitement to your bedroom. You will forget about routine and boredom if you decide to do so. Definitely worth trying!
Why do you think some couples cheat on each other? This one is more serious but doesn't have to lead to a depressing and sentimental conversation. You may be just curious what he thinks about being faithful to just one partner for the rest of his life and what he thinks about couples that are not able to commit on a long-term basis. The thing you expect to hear from him is the assurance that he will never ever do something that hurtful to you. Go ahead and ask him that!