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Published 2018-09-14
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Tricks to get whatever you want in your relationship

When in a relationship, we all know that their things are a bit different from the time we used to be single and do whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted. Now, there is another person in the relationship that you need to consider when making decisions. You both need to make sure that the step you are taking works for the both of you which is not an easy thing to do but when the love is there, things are easier. There are some ways to get what you want in your relationship or a little closer to what you are looking for and we have provided a list of tips that help you with that!

Stay vulnerable

Stay vulnerable

It is not that easy to express what you want out loud and we all know it but…

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Remember that it is very important to ask for it because if you don’t, you will not get it because he cannot read your mind!

Victimized language

Victimized language

I am just going to say one sentence and that is Do Not Play The Victim Card!

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Use unilateral disarmament technique

Use unilateral disarmament technique

Describe

The first thing you can do is to use the actual language and describe!

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What you need to do is to use specific sentences and avoid ambiguity.

Express

Express

Not all the time using words is the way to ask for what you want!

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Different ways you can express your feelings can be with facial expression, gestures and any other types of nonverbal communication.

Assert

Assert

Remember that expressing what you want confidently and accurately is the key.

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Avoid being passive aggressive or any kinds of aggression because you will get nothing from that!

Reinforce

Reinforce

When you are stating what you want, you have a reason for it and that is why you have decided to share it with your partner, right!?

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Use the same reasoning talking to your partner and support your decision. Help him see your perspective.

Stay mindful

Stay mindful

Have in mind that there is the possibility for him not being on the same boat as you!

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If he wants the happiness for the both of you, he will understand but you need to be confident in your choice!

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Also remember that someone we do not see the result of the choice we so insist on making. He might know better!

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Confident

Confidence is the key! That is what everyone says. See yourself as someone confident. This can help you in your day to day life!

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Express what you need with confidence so he sees that there is no doubt in you and you believe your choice is the right one!

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Negotiate

If after all the things we have mentioned in this article, still, it did not work out, negotiate.

Negotiate

Check if there is a possibility of finding a middle ground and if he can meet you halfway.

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