How to let him know what you feel over text
Dating seems to be much easier nowadays since you can communicate and flirt with someone over text. It’s mainly very convenient for those who are too shy and reserved to open up about their feelings face to face. Well, you can’t date someone only by texting or calling but still, in the beginning, it is so helpful! Now it’s time to find out a few tricks that will help you share what you feel without being embarrassed and making awkward blunders. Just continue reading to find out more!
Be careful with abbreviations. Using proper grammar is more attractive and makes everything more clear.
They may be obvious to you but he may not get them and misunderstand you.
Before you send the text telling the person that you like them, make sure you are sending it to the right person.
Also, if you are talking about the guy with your friend over text, make sure you are not accidentally sending those messages to him.
Don’t share all the thoughts over text, especially if you don't know each other so well.
And most of all, don’t confess that you fell in love with him. Just think - is this the right time and the right place to say such important words?
Simply tell him that you liked his shoes the other day or you admire one of his passions. Compliments always work!
Flirting is a good option but pushing too much is not! This can become too confusing.
What if he didn't answer right away? Don’t double the text!
He would find it desperate and annoying. Just give him the chance to respond when they can.
Keep things short and simple, for example, you can say "Have you tried that new restaurant next to our university? If you haven’t, we could go!"
Such messages make it clear what you want and they also show your confidence.
Text when you know he’s not busy. Waiting for the response is sometimes so frustrating!
If he works during the day then send the message in the evening or simply on the weekend.
You can talk to your friends first. Tell them about your plan.
They know you so well that will surely give you some tips and make you more confident and less nervous.
Prepare a backup plan in case he rejects you. you want to save face, don’t you?
First of all, be confident and nonchalant. This is just his loss and you shouldn’t show him that you care.