Signs that you are going to be together forever and ever!
Being faithful in a relationship has different definitions to different people based their values and moral. To some, even talking to another person is considered cheating while to others an action in bed needs to happen to call their partner a cheater. Whatever the definition is, at the end all you feel like is being rejected. Like there was something about you that was not good enough. You lose the ability to trust people easily and always think about the possibilities of being cheated on one more time in your new relationship. To help you learn if the person you are dating is faithful or not, we have some proven studies in this article.
You’re best friends
Being a couple doesn't only meaning sleeping together, kissing and flirting. First of all, you should be friends. And the most successful relationships that have the chance to last for a long time, are based on friendship. If you barely know each other and start the relationship with sleeping together then this may be just a romance and may not transform into a serious relationship that will thrive. First of all, you should understand each other and have fun together even if you are not in the bedroom.
You have seperate lives
You know what it means to give the partner some space and independence. You don't have to go together everywhere, you don't have to hang out with the same friends and share the same passions. That would make every relationship fade way very quickly. there must be a moment to think about your partner, miss them and come back to them with new energy and excitement. Allow your partner to take a breath and enjoy his life also when you are not together.
You agree on vital things
Well, you don't have to agree on everything and there will be surely some arguments in your relationships when one partner you will have totally different opinions on something. However, if you share similar priorities and opinions on crucial things, this relationship can survive, for example, you both want to live in the countryside after getting married, have a big family and travel whenever there will be an opportunity. This requires similar attitudes toward your life.
You know when to get out of a routine
Routine kills every relationship slowly and gradually. And if partners don't realize this fact in time, they may be already too far away from each other to keep the spark in their relationship. That's why it's better to be proactive and organize your free time in a way that you feel excitement and adrenaline. Don't let all your dates be the same and also try to enliven your intimate life. Mutual emotions and richness of various emotions will help you thrive and be together forever!
You have no problem talking about se*ual preferences
If you are in a long-term relationship, there is no place for embarrassment, lies, and shyness in every area of your life. You shouldn't feel awkward when the lights are on and you are naked and you shouldn't be ashamed to try out new positions and other fantasies. Instead of just getting to the point you should also talk about your preferences and expectations as they will help you feel more satisfaction it's crucial that both partners feel this satisfaction. Don't shy away next time!
You argue but do not eat each other up
Since there are no perfect relationships when partners don't even know how it is to have an argument, you will experience them many times. And it's not the red flag and sign that you are not compatible and won't survive together. The crucial thing is to remain respectful, draw conclusions and be eager to compromise. If you often shout at each other and use offensive, hurtful words full of hatred and disrespect during your fights then your future may not be so bright.
You always support one another
This one is quite obvious. If you feel that you can rely on him in every situation and that he will not leave you when the bad times come then this relationship has a chance to blossom! Partners should never be indifferent to each other's needs and they should be understanding and offer advice when one of them need them. You friend may ignore you and have less time for you but your loving best friend will never do it if he really cares about you. When you laugh, he will laugh with you and when you cry he will console you.
You go through bad days together
It's good to remember that when the relationship is successful it is strong enough to survive bad times. Financial problems, miscarriage, health problems - all this can happen. If any problems and challenges come up, you don't run away and look for another partner to have a more fortunate life. You stay, show care, patience and no matter what you are close to each other. And if the storm goes away and you are still so much in love with each other then this is your big success.
Time does not grow you guys apart
It's obvious that the beginnings of a relationship are always so sweet, exciting and passionate. And then you take off your pink glasses and see more flaws and weaknesses of your partner. Also, many things change in your lives, you may go to a university that is far away from him or you may put on weight, he may go bald. However, if despite all those things you are still together an cannot imagine your lives separately then you will be probably forever together!
You trust your significant other
Trust is another important factor when it comes to maintaining a long-term relationship. It means that you don't feel compelled to check his text messages or constantly ask about his friends with whom he's going to the bar. You accept the fact that he is sociable and doesn't have to tell you about everything. You know he loves you and wouldn't cheat on you. This is trust! If your relationship lacks this important factor then, unfortunately, you may not survive as a couple.
You are like a team
You are not like rivals in your relationship. Whatever important decisions you make, you do it together, often after a lot of discussions and compromises. You are involved in all mundane activities and you never look down on him. You respect each other and behave in the way that doesn't allow unnecessary fights. Why argue all the time? You think it's a waste of them and you are true! It's better to concentrate on making your relationship more compatible and understanding.
You look forward to getting old together
Getting old doesn't scare you. Of course, it means wrinkles, less energy and maybe even some more diseases, however, you will be able to support each other, that's for sure. You will be still the best friends who know how to make their partner smile. No matter what will happen to your appearance and health, you will be still in love with each other because true love never fades away. With time, it even grows and becomes stronger and more successful. This is just amazing!
You earn similar amount of money
Well, you don't have to earn exactly the same amount of money, but you can be more successful while getting similar payment, according to scientists. It's mostly connected with the fact that most arguments in every relationship are caused because of money. And it's even worse when a woman earns more because then, her partner gets frustrated, then angry and may not stand the fact that he is less successful and as a man, in some sense, he thinks he fails.
You are willing to compromise
Relationships are formed by people who have different habits and interests. Sometimes they may not be liked by our partners. Therefore, in order for the relationship to last long and be happy, we must learn to compromise. To accept the partner as he is and not change everything in him. In relation, "I" is replaced by "we", and the common good is important, and not only what one likes. That's why acceptance and compromise are necessary to exist in every loving relationship.
You are grateful
Lucky couples in long-lasting relationships are the ones that appreciate what they have and create together. Those who give affection and all good things to the partner, and do not expect anything in return. Those who are satisfied and grateful for knowing and having their partner and ensure him about it every day. You surely have many reasons to be grateful for in your relationship. Don't hesitate to show them to your partner and let him express his own gratefulness.