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Published 2018-09-27
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Bride died before the wedding. After 7 days, the boyfriend found a photo that she forgot to erase

The hardest stages of life sometimes come at the least expected time, when we have wonderful plans in our minds. This is the story of a happy couple of two Americans who loved each other with all their strength until the end. For some time, John Polo and Michelle established an emotional bond strong enough to reach the altar, which could not be possible due to the death of the girl. Next, we have compiled more details about the misfortune that occurred a few months ago that left poor John devastated.

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There are moments in life that give us the most positive feelings, sometimes, even take our breath away, like when we first experienced the fact of meeting our high school sweetheart, or when you find a picture of your wife in a dress you could never see again. These two moments took place in the life of John Polo, a 33-year-old widower from Illinois, whose wife died of a proximal epithelioid sarcoma, a rare and aggressive cancer…

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After starting a love relationship while they were in high school, they decided to put a stop to their lives and follow their paths separately, but that did not stop them from meeting again after 8 years. In the course of a year, John decided to ask Michelle to marry him, but after a short time, they received a devastating news: she had a proximal epithelioid sarcoma, cancer so rare that her specialist said that it is only contracted by 1 person per year…

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After receiving the hard diagnosis and spending four days assimilating the news, the couple decided to run to court to get married, an act that took effect in July 2013. Only five days after the wedding, Michelle had to be removed. one of her kidneys, submitting, in addition, to several sessions of chemotherapy and radiation, which gave some hope to both. In fact, her health seemed to improve for a while, although damn cancer soon proliferated again…

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When they were told that Michelle had had the sarcoma again, they did not know how to react, and despite continuing with treatments that were weakening the woman, the disease eventually spread to her liver, one of her ovaries, coccyx and a lung. When they returned to the doctor's office to check their condition, the doctor informed them that the situation was terminal. Michelle's condition went from bad to worse, and both knew what would happen. "It was a battle against cancer from the same hell," Polo told The Mighty…

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After accessing an operation in which the tumor of one of her affected lungs and ovary would be removed, and after a failed attempt of a clinical trial of immunological therapy (a type of cancer treatment that stimulates the body's natural defenses), the couple decided to set an early date and complete a wedding for the church. The big day was due to take place on February 6, 2016, but, unfortunately, Michelle stopped re-breathing on January 22, 2016, something that was deeply painful for Polo…

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Just a week after Michelle's death, the man found one of his wife's photos on her phone, but he did not decide to share it on Facebook until August 31, 2017. Polo said he was waiting until the right time to share it with everyone, telling the story of everything that happened and how badly it happened. Since the death of his wife, Polo has acknowledged not being able to overcome it, and still wonders why the world had to take his partner…

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One of his posts reads: "She loved that dress. While I was in the hospice center, I talked to people about how great the wedding was going to be, I was not coherent enough to realize that I was not going to To get to that moment, Michelle died without me being able to see her in that dream dress." However, over time, even in a photo, Polo could see his wife with that beautiful wedding dress, and so did the whole world…

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In just a few days, that post became really viral, reaping thousands of poignant comments at that time. Since then, Polo has tried to channel all this support through a blog he has personally made, with the title "Better Not Bitter Widower", which began a month after Michelle's death. His writings raised a deep passion for writing and talking about love, loss, pain, and healing, including aspects of how he felt losing his beloved one…

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John Polo launched his first book, called "Widowed: Rants, Raves and Randoms", throughout the month of September 2017, and even began to speak and organize certain workshops in which he tried to help the participants with the pain that they also suffered from various losses. "I want to change the way society looks at pain, I want to help others find healing, I want to make something good come out of an indescribable tragedy," he said then…

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There is no doubt that Polo's life has been full of memorable moments, both good and bad, and such moments have given him a new purpose in life as an author, blogger, speaker and even motivational coach of life. "I know there will be times when you do not think you can overcome such a profound loss, but I can be proof that you can. Not only can you survive but with time, you can learn to live again." This is something that is worth taking into account…

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In another Facebook post, John decided to share a poem he had written inspired by Michelle's photo with that same wedding dress, the one she never wore. "That's my wife. In her wedding dress. A wedding dress that I never got to see her in. We were married at the courthouse a few days before her first surgery was scheduled to take place. We rushed there. To become man and wife. Not knowing if she would make it out of the surgery alive. After cancer came back and she was terminal, we decided to plan a real wedding."

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"She didn't make it to that real wedding. She died two weeks before it was scheduled to take place. I have so many regrets. Not getting to see her walk down the aisle is atop that list. But, she got that dress. Her dream dress. She loved that dress SO much. While at the hospice, she would talk to people about how great the wedding was going to be. She wasn't coherent enough to realize that she wasn't going to make it to there. Michelle died without me ever seeing her in that dream dress."

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"A week after she passed away I stumbled across this picture in her phone. I lay motionless in bed, both happy and devastated. Tears flowing down my cheeks as I laughed aloud at the memory of how giddy it made her. My bride. In her dress. I want to live a long life. I want to remarry and have grandkids. I want to write and teach. I want to spread my message to the world. I want to tell them everything I have learned about love, loss, grief, and healing."

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"But. When it is my time, I am running up there. No - I am sprinting up there! To see her." concluded Polo. Since then, the man is dedicated to writing in his blog numerous texts and poems about certain feelings of those who believe that it is worth speaking; the last one is from last June, and it is titled "It's complicated". According to the posts that he uploads to his Instagram profile, where he has more than 2,000 followers, John is trying to turn the page little by little without forgetting the memory of his deceased wife…

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The last post of his profile shows a simple cube, but if you look at the caption of it, we will see the emotional story behind it. "At first glance, it looks like an old and disgusting bucket, but I do not want to throw it in. This bucket is the one my wife used the 5,000 times she vomited during her two-and-a-half-year battle with cancer. "I know, to the average eye, it appears to just be a bucket. A rather old, disgusting bucket. .... But. I don’t want to throw it out. I. Do. Not. Want. To. Throw. It. Out. .... This bucket. .... This bucket is one of the 5,000 throw up buckets that my wife would use during her two and a half year cancer battle from hell. .... This bucket. .... This bucket is the bucket that my wife held onto for dear life the last time I took her to the hospital. .... December 26, 2015. .... She would never return home. .... I’m moving. .... Moving from the house that we built together," he said.

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