The moving story of a girl who, after maternal abandonment, must take care of her father
People usually make big plans in life, think about every detail, but in reality many times we are only a small part of the scenario that the universe has prepared for us. We have a family, good work, health, friends, a place to live. But how often do we think about what would happen if we lost everything from one moment to the next? Obviously, when things settle well, we do not usually think about a possible disaster. Unfortunately, life, every day, teaches us that between our plans and those of the universe, there can be a huge chasm and it only depends on how we will face adverse circumstances.
It often happens that only in the most complicated moments do we meet our true friends and the people who are by our side unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. Unfortunately, even those who promise us an eternal love and be in the good and the bad, forget the promises when things start to get worse and life becomes too difficult. Today we want to present a very moving story about a girl who stayed with her dad to take care of him when he was crippled because of an accident. Her attitude deserves to be recognized!
1. Tian Haicheng of China was crippled after a tragic accident that occurred while commuting with a taxi.
Nobody would think that when Tian asked for a taxi in the afternoon, it was going to be his last trip as a person physically completely well. The Chinese man lived happily, had a nice family, work and really, had no reason to worry. Although he has never lived among luxuries, his life was not complicated either. He appreciated every day and above all; he counted on excellent health. Unfortunately, everything changed when he had a car accident.
2. The man had to stop working; his life changed completely from one moment to another.
The man survived but never again can work as he was doing before the tragic accident. As a result of what happened, Tian was paralyzed and cannot even get up or walk alone. The tragedy was a terrible experience for him and for all the members of his family. His wife and two children were aware that now his life will change completely and they will have to reorganize their day to day to take care of Tian.
3. However, Tian was calm thinking that he could count on his wife.
Unfortunately, not everyone is willing to take on the enormous responsibility of caring for a disabled person. Tian's wife evidently was not prepared to face that reality so different from the one she was used to. At first, she tried to take care of him, but little by little she lost the desire and did not know how to face this tragedy. Besides, she had two children whom she now had to take care of herself, since she could not count on any help from Tian.
4. Unfortunately, the woman could not endure so many obligations and decided to leave her husband.
The woman endured only two months and did not feel strong enough to continue in this way. It is practically impossible for Tian to become independent again. Until the end of his days, someone will have to take care of him since he alone cannot perform the simplest activities, such as brushing teeth or holding a spoon while eating. Everyday life has become a real challenge.
5. It was a very hard blow for Tian and he really did not expect it to be so loved; In addition, his wife took their oldest son with her.
All that was too much for Tian: in recent times he lost his health and now he was losing his beloved family too. Hit after hit. But, the most painful thing was that his wife decided to take their eldest son with her. Tian stayed with his six-year-old daughter, but he still greatly misses his son. It is difficult to describe the pain of a man who loses everything in such a short time and cannot even fight to recover his life.
6. The good news is that men can count on their parents who care for them every day.
In this way, the Chinese man stayed with his little daughter. He can also count on the support of his parents who go to his home every day to see how he is doing and help him with the most necessary things. Tian appreciates every kind of help and recognizes that without his parents and his little daughter, Jia Jia, he would have surrendered a long time ago. His family is his biggest reason to live and try to recover what he built for so many years.
7. Although his wife decided to leave him when he needed her the most, someone else decided to stay with Tian: a little angel who is really his daughter.
He understood that he cannot have anyone by his side by force, but at the same time he realized that only people who love us unconditionally will stay with us in good times and bad. Thanks to that sad story, Tian understood that his wife's feelings were never sincere. When things got complicated, she decided to abandon him and continue with her life as if nothing had happened.
8. Little Jia Jia decided to take care of her dad as long as necessary; Although sometimes it is very complicated, the little girl is not discouraged.
Little Jia Jia turned out to be much more mature than her mom and decided that she was not going to leave her father in those conditions. She assumed all the responsibility and now she is the one who takes care of her father every day. Although she is still very small, she knows that her father could not survive without help. Since the tragedy happened, every day she tries hard to give her beloved dad the best. And apart from everything, she continues with other obligations and goes to school every day.
9. The little girl wakes up every day at six in the morning to start with the routine.
Jia Jia's day starts at six in the morning. The girl knows that before going to school she has to do many things related to the special care of her father. In the first place, she massaged him so that all his muscles start working, then she puts on a special ointment, prepares his breakfast, brushes his teeth and finally, after doing everything, goes to school. When Jia Jia is not at home, her grandparents go to be with her dad.
10. The first thing she has to do is massage her dad's muscles, then shave, dress him and give him breakfast.
In his house, Tian has a special construction that helps him move so he does not have to be in the same place all the time. His daughter helps him get on a machine that looks like a swing. The little girl does an extraordinary job every day, but she feels very happy and grateful to be able to stay with her dad. She loves it infinitely and would not trade it for anyone else. When they ask her if she misses her mother, she honestly replies that she does not, that she prefers to be with her father.
11. After completing all the above, the little girl goes to school and while Tian's parents take care of him.
Many admire her for being so small and at the same time perform the activities that many adults could not deal with. Jia Jia impresses with her maturity for having assumed the responsibility of taking care of her father. Her father became the center of her world and she admits that she could do many more things for him. But at the same time, she is grateful for the help of her grandparents who also deserve to be recognized in this story.
12. When Jia Jia returns, she eats with her dad and helps him move in a special machine.
After school, Jia Jia goes straight home. She is aware that she will not be able to rest for a while since she has to feed her dad and then do the rest of the activities. Many times she gets tired, but she knows that if she does not do it, nobody else will be able to take care of her father. The most impressive thing is that the little girl does not complain even when things get very complicated.
13. Miss her brother
The girl recognizes that she does not miss her mother, but she keeps a grudge for not having stayed with her dad in such complicated moments; she only missed her brother with whom she got along very well. Now, the siblings are separated and cannot be seen every day. Before they played together, but the accident of her father, instead of uniting them even more, distanced them. However, Jia Jia tries to focus on the positive sides of life.
14. Thanks to the care of his loving daughter, Tian is better every day; thanks to a channel on YouTube, everyone can verify the effort of the little one.
Fortunately, Tian is better every day and thanks to the care of his little daughter, he feels much better. Above all, his mood improved a lot and he also wants to concentrate on what he still has left. He is very proud of his little guardian angel and wants to tell everyone how extraordinary his daughter is. With the help of some friends and family, he created a video in which we can see how the little girl takes care of the man every day.
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