Reasons why couples break up in the first year according to experts!
Love is blind and when you are in a relationship that you are deeply and irretrievably in love, you probably fall deeper and deeper by the passage of time and all of a sudden, out of nowhere, the person stops having any feeling for you and says that he/she wants to break up with you because he does not feel the same anymore or there is something else in his life. That is what catches you off guard most of the time because you thought you will be together forever. Here are some of the reasons why couples break up in the first year according to experts!
The first 3 to 6 months of the relationship comes with so many challenges!
Your relationship also becomes pretty vulnerable at times.
After a while, you will start seeing who the person really is!
Love shadows many things and when you are a while in the relationship it goes away and reveals thing you might not have liked in the first place if there was no love.
Tina B. Tessina says: "After a year or so, the new relationship euphoria begins to wear off, and reality sets in."
"Both partners relax, and stop being on their best behavior."
"Old family habits assert themselves, and they begin to disagree about things they were tolerant of before."
As time goes by, you also find out how generous your partner is which might become a big deal!
April Masini says: "A year is when most couples of a certain age decide to make it official,"
"If, after a year of dating, one or the other doesn’t want to take that step,"
"Whether it’s moving in together, getting married or simply making monogamy important."
"This is when the one who wants a commitment should leave to pursue their personal relationship goals."
As you go further, you find out that you do not live up to one another’s expectations!