These 9 phrases indicate that a man has someone else but does not know how to break up with his partner...
Each of the sentimental relationships at the beginning seems to be a fairy tale. However, when butterflies stop being noticed in the stomach of the couple and their days begin to fill with routine, it is very easy to lose the desire to stay together. Given that, according to official statistics from various sources, men are most inclined to cheat on their partners are men, we have prepared a short list of expressions that may indicate that the days of your happiness are numbered. Take note!
1. "Better things take some time"
You do not even have to be very clever to decipher the meaning of this expression. Many men are so coward that instead of leaving things clear and betting on the hard truth, they prefer to leave an "open door" even if they already know that they will never return with a woman. As painful as it may be, if your partner makes a proposal like that, cut it short instead of wasting time. Nothing works well half-heartedly, and sentimental relationships are clear proof of that.
2. "Don’t you have anything to do?"
If you feel really hurt after hearing it, you are right: this phrase transmits aggressiveness in its extreme form! Anyone who uses it against the other simply does not want to be with her and dreams of her leaving his life ... Do not kid yourself and encourage her to be single again: sooner or later your partner will leave you. If he felt the same love for you that you still have for him, he would never ask you such questions.
3. "Is that all you wanted to tell me?"
Although sometimes this question can only indicate that your loved one is tired and wants to relax as soon as possible, repeating it many times can take on a new meaning. Sometimes, even when their love ceases to exist, men prefer to be abandoned instead of causing pain and suffering by announcing the breakup of their partners. If your boyfriend insists on asking you this question all the time, be aware: you probably do not have much time together.
4. "What do you need? I do not have time."
Could you spend hours talking to him before and now it bothers him to open your mouth? Do you feel that the answers to your questions take away the desire to communicate with him? If you see that you cannot even ask him questions or consult anything with your man, it's definitely time to let him go. When you really love, you are naturally interested in everything that has to do with your partner. The constant lack of interest is a sign that something is very wrong between the two ...!
5. "I miss how everything was before."
It is quite painful to hear that our dearest being is not comfortable with his present sentimental situation. Girls who have had the bad luck to experience it, know that it can only indicate one thing. When your partner reveals that he would love to go back in time, it is because at present there is nothing left - or almost nothing - of what he felt for you before. Do you need more proof of the lack of love?
6. "I'm sick of you"
Here is the worst way to destroy the remnants of feelings between two people. There are very few expressions capable of causing a mixture of sensations as painful as those implied by "You make me sick". Usually, the crisis has to get older for this sentence to be uttered: if this is your case, it is possible that your boyfriend has been saving many things and the time has come to unburden all his tension ... in you. For your own good, have some dignity and get away from him as soon as possible.
7. "I do not care."
Indifference is a crucial component of the last and most decisive stage before the rupture. If all your plans, suggestions or stories always clash with different versions of the same statement ("I do not care", "whatever", etc.) by your boyfriend, the truth is that there is nothing to save. As harrowing as it is to do it, admit that what used to join you as soulmate ended up vanishing and start looking for your happiness next to someone else.
8. "I'm tired"
Apathy and tiredness is another sign of lack of interest. Normally it is said that possession is the tomb of desire. If we see that we allocate our time to other activities, it may be because there is no need to reserve for the person we want or, worse, that we are no longer ourselves. If it's a single occasion that we hear that, it may be true, but pay attention to the rest of the excuses that you transmit from that moment.
9. "You are behaving like a paranoid person"
If the other person begins to accuse you of paranoia, it is possible because you are closer to what you believe in the truth. Keep in mind, however, that the more relaxed the other person is, the more mistakes he makes, so warning him that you suspect something will only make him take more care of his lies. Try to show yourself as someone calm and soon you will discover if there really are clues. It is simply the time to pay attention to the details.
Women, unlike men, have a strong intuition, thanks to which they are able to notice when their partner meets a second woman. Men have more difficulties. They do not have extensive intuition, therefore it takes them much more time to realize that their partner may not be faithful. Men prefer to listen to reason than to the voice of the heart and premonitions. They need hard evidence before they take something for granted. How to recognize that a woman is cheating on her man? Here we have 8 signs.
1. She says "you and me", not "we"
When a woman cheats, she usually cuts herself off from her partner's family and friends. This is due to a sense of guilt, as well as the fear that someone close to you may notice the change that has taken place in her. In addition, she ceases to share information with you from her life, does not tell you how she feels, does not tell about what is important to her. In conversations, whether with you or with family and friends, she does not want to use the word "we", instead she says about "you and me" or "he and I". It is a clear sign that you no longer play an important role in her life.
2. She avoids questions, searches for provocations
A woman who is cheating does not like questions (about her plans, her free time, a new phone number, rejected conversations, etc.), because then she must quickly invent a lie to cover the truth. That's why when they ask questions, they either quickly change the subject or they refuse to answer or attack you. Finding reasons to argue can also be one of her ways to prove to you later that this relationship has not been healthy for some time.
3. She cares about her privacy more than ever
Has your partner suddenly become more careful not to let her phone fall into your hands? Perhaps she mellowed the bell and more often than ever she would refuse to talk when you're around? Does she enjoy the text message, but she does not want to share with you their content or information about their sender? Does she send text messages much more often than before? Did she enter the password on her phone so that only she can look at it? Or maybe you found out that she has another phone that she has not told you about before? She can use it for contacts with another man. When a woman suddenly starts pressing for privacy, it is a sign that she is trying to hide something important from you.
4. She is extremely busy
A woman who is involved in the relationship will always be willing to spend as much time as possible with the man she cares about. If she has not had time for you, you should look more carefully at her behavior. Take initiative and watch her reaction. It's not just about spontaneously proposing when a woman sneaks away for a walk, dinner or watching movies from which she can always get out of her busy schedule. If you want to really check it, suggest something for the day and time when you know it is free and there are no plans. If she gets out of the meeting with you, maybe her free time is already reserved for another man.
5. She becomes indifferent
When she is involved in a relationship, she is very concerned about the behavior of her partner and how he treats her and the relationship she creates with her. She can take offense because you forgot about your small anniversary, did not call in the evening, or he wanted to spend Saturday with your friends instead of with her. If she has stopped paying attention to you, she does not reproach you for insufficient contact or involvement, you have cause for concern. Her attention is taken by someone else.
6. She stops planning
Most women happen to like to make plans for the future. She often tries to engage her partner in this task because she likes to feel that he also notices the potential and future of the relationship. If you stop making plans, and in addition, when you start asking for them at some point, she tries to cut the topic, it may indicate that her vision of the future is no longer an important place for you. So be careful when you talk to her next time and try to notice this thing...
7. She buys a new underwear and dresses more se*ily
When a woman meets someone new, she often supplies herself with new, sexy underwear. Thanks to this, she feels sexier, which means that it is easier to seduce the latter. The new perfumes may also help in this. If it consumes more, she may try to hide its scent, which has been left on her skin. Have you noticed that she has changed the way of doing makeup? Does she apply more or less makeup? This may also be due to the lover's preferences.
8. She cares more about herself
When you started to meet, your partner prepared for each meeting extremely carefully, so that you can take your breath away from your view. However, after some time, when your relationship has grown stronger, your partner, and maybe your wife already, has stopped trying so hard to look beautiful for you. This is totally normal, it should not worry you. However, if she again starts to pay much attention to how she presents herself, she prepares for each going out for longer than to meet you, perhaps trying to impress what she looks like, a new man.
When you are outside, in a cafe, restaurant or during a walk in the park, do you have the impression that she observes the surroundings, checks who is around you? At the same time, does not she pay special attention to you? Even if her lover knows that she is still with you, your partner always in the situations when you go out among other people, will be watching the surroundings carefully. Thanks to this, she will catch the other person faster in the crowd, thus increasing your chances for a thoughtful, quick reaction when he appears nearby.